Am I being paranoid?

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  April 2001

  If you really do love her then I can understand why you'd want to get back with her even after all this, my friend had a similar problem (but to a lesser extent, her bf was sleeping with her mate as well as her) and I'm going to give you the same advice as I gave her - don't try and get back together. It may feel right at the moment because you miss her so much, but in the long run you can't live without trust and you're always going to have doubts about what she says now.
  
  I know it hurts and all you want is for things to be back how they were, but they're never going to be like that again, sorry if that sounds harsh but it's true. Things will have changed now if you got back together and it wouldn't be the same, and basically I reckon it would all go wrong and you'd end up getting even more hurt, and it would be harder to remember the good things about the relationship.
  
  Hard as it is, I'd really advise you to close the door on this relationship, lock it, and throw away the key. Good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  April 2001

  i guess i've gotta be strong (even though i'm not at this time) and finish it for good.
  
  thx for the advice people.

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