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when i feel ill and crap and moody i dont start having a do at other people
(cue people going..men dont know what its like blah blah blah)
:P
Then I brought it up on here and people said yea - periods do hurt but they don't automatically make you into a monster - it's unfair to take it out on others because it's not their fault. So that's my perspective on it these days. Everyone gets random pains, but some women do act mean and think it's justified, when it's not, to put it bluntly.
You know, women complain about the pain of birth and periods so much, but you never hear them complain about having kids .
Its got nothing to do with being female itself, and everything to do with being an immature twat. Men are like it too, and i have known many men like this.
and in my opinion, i cant be bothered to associate with people immature enough to behave like it, male or female.
We laugh things off and don't take things seriously, it's like the girl who gets upset when the boy doesn't reply to the text that says "hey how's things?"
Well there are psychological differences between men and women. Even something as simple as men having much more testosterone affects how we behave.
Men do that too, ya know (take things seriously and get narked about not getting a reply to a text).
You probably just think women do it because you've probably had more experience of women doing it, I've had more experience of men being little prima donnas. There is a definite middle ground between Mars and Venus... I occupy it :razz:
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Lipsy, she did apologise for it in the end, and admitted that she did start it all.
Finally, her excuse for it was that she was having a stressy day because of her hormones...what ever that means.
As far as i am concerned its over now as she apologised for her behaviour.
Yeh i know that, but im talking about this thread generalisation in general. I dont have a single female friend that would act how the OP described but i have male friends that would and ive known men in the past that would.
It seems like the minute a female on the boards steriotypes she gets told off yet when a male does it everyones like "yeh its because of periods". Bullshit!
A generalisation in itself perhaps?
Well no, because not all moods are caused by periods. If they were, men would have periods. Some women are too quick to blame all their personality faults on this.
Of course you get some women that have PMS, temper tantrums etc, but its how the person deals with it that either makes them a twat or not.
I can get PMS and i have days where im in a bad mood, but that doesnt mean i call someone a cunt (for example) over the phone for no reason then hang up.
What on earth are you on about?