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Girls and moods?
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What is it about girls and their mood swings that makes them start an argument, then when they cant take it and are losing it, get all moody and make out like they are totally right and you (the guy) are totally wrong??
I am not even talking about girlfriends, just girls who are friends as well as girlfriends too of course.
Like, im on the phone and we are joking about and she is going, "blah blah blah" to me when im trying to talk and we are both laughing. So when she goes to talk i do it to her, she loses her rag big time, goes all silent so i ask if she is upset and she is like, yeah you're acting like a prat. So i said all i did was what she did and she is like, "i dont know what your talking about. your just a prick, so piss off," and then hangs up on me!
I mean seriously, if you cant take abit of a joke (especially when you start it) then dont do it. What is it? I do not understand girls!
I am not even talking about girlfriends, just girls who are friends as well as girlfriends too of course.
Like, im on the phone and we are joking about and she is going, "blah blah blah" to me when im trying to talk and we are both laughing. So when she goes to talk i do it to her, she loses her rag big time, goes all silent so i ask if she is upset and she is like, yeah you're acting like a prat. So i said all i did was what she did and she is like, "i dont know what your talking about. your just a prick, so piss off," and then hangs up on me!
I mean seriously, if you cant take abit of a joke (especially when you start it) then dont do it. What is it? I do not understand girls!
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Thanks!:p
And don't make it worse by throwing random accusations and being ignorant.
And ESPECIALLY.... dont do something wrong and then not realise what it is when we're sulking. It WONT go down well.
If you truly don't know what it is then pretend, and don't even hesitate to say sorry.
That's all you need to understand
Give the girl a break.
:yes: And don't get mad or annoyed either. That makes it even worse. I started crying in taco bell yesterday because I got asked "whats the matter?" in a voice I thought sounded annoyed
Yeah, but we have to deal with most of those anyway, and then all YOUR issues too!
You have to deal with about half of them and w have to deal with ALL of them...
And don't tease us either.
But teasing you is half the fun
weight issues, body issues, sex issues, work/uni/college issues, money issues, family issues, girlfriend issues (which usually encompasses all of the above anyway haha)
My take on it is that blokes have to deal with the above.
... and the conclusion is that the only thing different is the period thing. I realise they're painful etc, but we don't half cop it from you girls so we know ALL about it most of the time.
We don't do it to you, so why do you do it to us?
Hardly.
Men tease because quite often the people they tease are easy targets. Depends who you're teasing
Seriously though - think about it. If you used that excuse if you fucked up a serious business meeting, that would go down like a sack of shit.
So if the OP was you, you'd just stand there and laugh at her?
I don't get why this has anything to do with her being a girl, how old is she? Her behaviour sounds really immature.
I don't see any difference in moodiness between my male and female friends tbh
Try to kill you and then FALL OUT over a period (ha!) of days. :thumb:
Anyway, don't think moods are exclusive to girls. I know a few boys who are a million times moodier than me.
Lurvely.
Anyhow, I can only really advise you give her space and let her come to you. There's absolutely no point chasing after her and making a fuss, I guarantee that.
Ugh, I prsonally hate doing that. I can't seem to talk a friend of mine about my problem because I know he's just going to either ignore me or just make it worse...
*is not like that*
ditto
exactly.
men have the same as us but they don't get periods and they have their little man to worry about aswell!
Tell her to wise up and speak to you when she can actually take what she dishes out; I really hate it when people can't roll with the punches (especially, as you said, when they bloody well started it!).
i think its a excuse thats hard to have a come back to, and therefore they use it.
evil evil people.