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it's natural for sexes to bitch about each other
the different sexes would come along great and understand each other perfectly, wouldn't it be for the few fools that ruin it for the others
I thought it was all a bit strange.
Then I never heard from him so I text and said "so I take it you was lying when you said you'd like to see me again?"
He replied with some drivel "I really meant it but after that comment I.m haveing 2nd thoughts" As if to say I'm jealous and paranoid!! Ireplied and said "well if that's how strongly you feel, no worries. take care"
Alarm bells or what??!
Would you not be pissed off if a guy was only going to stay if he got sex?
I'm just glad it happened now and not when/if I'd started to like him!!:)
Prick. At least the jerk part in your name is right.
You knocked his ego - you didn't want sex with him so he was going to take himself a way from you. Its all a silly game. It seems its game over tho now:p
Least he was honest about wanting to touch you and not being able to stop trying it on. He was going to remove himself from the temptation! It seems guys can't win whatever we do
I guess what he should have done is stayed, asked lots of questions and listen to you talk - he might have got a hand job out of that?
lol I would have got bored him asking loads of questions, was tired! So he would have got a hand job, my hand in his face
only joking - but hey ho if he's that moody then I can't be bothered anyway. It was slightly tonguein cheek when I siad the gf thing as well!
I was asking myself the same thing... I rather drive home and have my own bed, but if I am going to have sex, I of course stay (wouldn't work otherwise, huh? [except phone sex maybe]).
So if the chance not arises I drive home of course o0 Maybe not immediatelly after I've been rebuffed, but still....
but I thought we've probably had misunderstandings here - that's why I was happy to see him again. But then he comes out and says he's having 2nd thoughts because of what I said. I thought that was way too sensitive and thinking on his part only. He has since apologised. Never the less, he seems too mardy and sensitive for me and we got off on a bad foot too soon. I just can't be bothered with it.
and men that play it cool - I'm a sucker for regardless of fitness grrr it's my weekness.
Have fun and lets us know how it goes!
Hold on a sec....one thing is ing me - If you were tired and you weren't interested in him talking to you or him trying it on with you. Why did make the offer for him to stay the night?
Just what did you intend to happen if he did stay? :chin:
You birds just get more stranger as I get older.
Should I shut up now? :razz:
He also had a longish drive home, quite late at night.
Yeah guess so;)
Look I was merely being nosy don't mind me. Just couldn't work out what made him weird in your eyes? As a bloke, I'd be thinking the girl was trying to head fuck me. Saying no to me trying it on, then offering me place to stay. Then going moody cos I wasn't staying and going home.
he made me feel like he just wanted sex
He probably thought the same, that's why after I thought maybe we had crossed wires etc and was prepared to see him. lol and it's not like a threw a hissy fit, it was one comment! I didn't sit there and sulk after!
where did you go?
mr piercing had the nicest, sportiest bmw convertible!! grrr
convertable nice. i dont know what car this guy had coz im crap like that but it was black, 2-door and sporty and had leather interior.
Ha those fuckin wires should be cut - wonder how many relationships we all miss out on due to a stupid comment or action, all because the other person read too much into what you said, or misread what you meant and got their wires crossed.
Still you don't seem to have any regrets so onwards and upwards eh!