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I was talking to Al about this earlier and he said that if I wanted perspectives I ought to post it..... so I am doing because as we all know Al is never wrong <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
So:
- There's a guy and a girl, and a lot of the time they just act like best mates.
- However, sometimes when they go off to be alone he's holding her hand.
- But even though it's just the two of them in a dark corner late on into a party, they're just talking, the most sexual thing happening is linking arms.
- And this has been going on for about a year.
What do you honestly think - are they just good friends? Or is there something else between them?
Oh and please don't anyone try to read anything into this post, just think of it as a hypothetical situation!
So:
- There's a guy and a girl, and a lot of the time they just act like best mates.
- However, sometimes when they go off to be alone he's holding her hand.
- But even though it's just the two of them in a dark corner late on into a party, they're just talking, the most sexual thing happening is linking arms.
- And this has been going on for about a year.
What do you honestly think - are they just good friends? Or is there something else between them?
Oh and please don't anyone try to read anything into this post, just think of it as a hypothetical situation!
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I think they're just best friends.
I do everything you've mentioned with my best friend(who's a girl) all the time. It's just because we care alot about each other, but not in a sexual way.
All my life what I had mistaken for friendly pats on the back were really the hands that pushed me further and further down.
THey're probably just really good mates.
Well thats my opinion anyway.
Cya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
** I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day. **
so i think they could be just best friends wildchild.
Burn baby burn!
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
(he's drunk and currently obsessed with sex.)
Burn baby burn!
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sometimes people tend to be more discreet than others. while all this seems innocent, can u really ever know unless they tell u?
i mean if they're ALWAYS around each other, and they do go off alone, it's not out of the realm of possibility that they are as alanis sings "best friends with benefits."
that said... i'm with everyone here in that i have a few mates that are the huggy and hand holding type and it's never intended to be anything more than a symbol of warmth and friendship. so it's also not hard to believe they could also be just best friends.
i guess i'm saying.. if you want to know, ask one of them. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> otherwise, you'll just have to guess based on what you know about the two of them. just don't be shocked if it isn't what you think though.
sorry for waffling. but this one is a tough situation to call. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
but its also a touchy point with me, cos this girl i happen to be, um..very fond of...does exactly that with a mate of mine, and sorta does it with me as well. but i know i can't have her, so i'm resigned to sorta i guess flirting with her (even tho i know i ain't gonna get anywhere). it's a sore point for me, even if i ain't making any sense.
but still reckon they're having hot wild sex. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.