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is he worth sticking with?
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Right am bit unhappy with the treatment my bf has been giving me lately. I went on hols and wen i came back i had that said i love u, i miss u, i want u 2 be with me 4eva etc etc but then that night he dumped me, so i was naturally confused. on the same night we got back 2gether, i didnt beg or owt he just changed his mind for some reason n said he was sorry n didnt really wanna split up.
Anyway he then started being funny with me even more and i was getting very annoyed with him but i didnt say owt i jus let him get on with it but we was meant to be goin to a concert on sunday but his footy team are playin same night so he changed his mind n said he was goin to that instead (after i bout tickets costing £50!!) anyway we fell out more n more and on one msg wen i asked him what was wrong he said my mate had been texting him more recently, now i confronted her and she seemed shocked that he had mentioned her and i was even more confused. what did he mean? is there something going on? does he fancy her?
anyway everything seems to be ok now but i cant but feel he has treated me like crap and got away with it. I just cant tell if he is worth sticking with or not.
Ive been talking a lot to his mate lately and kinda flirtin with him and his mate has said he'd nva treat me like that and he'd love to go out with me n stuff, now i cudnt dump my bf for his m8 coz im not that sorta person and ino it'd really hurt my bf if i did that which i dont want to do coz i love him too much but ive found myself with a huge crush on his mate
plz help
btw, its long distance relationship im in, he lives 3hrs by train away from me and his m8 lives even futher.
Anyway he then started being funny with me even more and i was getting very annoyed with him but i didnt say owt i jus let him get on with it but we was meant to be goin to a concert on sunday but his footy team are playin same night so he changed his mind n said he was goin to that instead (after i bout tickets costing £50!!) anyway we fell out more n more and on one msg wen i asked him what was wrong he said my mate had been texting him more recently, now i confronted her and she seemed shocked that he had mentioned her and i was even more confused. what did he mean? is there something going on? does he fancy her?
anyway everything seems to be ok now but i cant but feel he has treated me like crap and got away with it. I just cant tell if he is worth sticking with or not.
Ive been talking a lot to his mate lately and kinda flirtin with him and his mate has said he'd nva treat me like that and he'd love to go out with me n stuff, now i cudnt dump my bf for his m8 coz im not that sorta person and ino it'd really hurt my bf if i did that which i dont want to do coz i love him too much but ive found myself with a huge crush on his mate
plz help
btw, its long distance relationship im in, he lives 3hrs by train away from me and his m8 lives even futher.
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