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I think when someone tells their partner they really do love them, honestly and truthfully, they should be warned that they may not get or may have to wait for a response... love takes time... and patience... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
what about...."do you swallow?" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> j/k
in reality, it's not enough to say the words. You have to mean it.
okay, i apologize ahead of time, but i can't resist.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
how often do you get asked that m.o.k? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
*waits for the retaliation*
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i think 'wheres the loo' can rate pretty highly on the list, 'specially after a heavy night with a stomach feeling like a volcano. after all, if you say 'i love you' and promptly vomit all over said beloved's shoes, y'aint gonna be the most popular person around <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
but i see your point persil - they are soooo important, and so often degraded or cheapened by overuse (inc. by the media & films).
lol.
Guess I walked into that one <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
what about..."it's your round"
"take me now" or "is that all?" (and no calvin, it's never been said to me)
What makes an eyebrow flawless?
welcome to the site plz start a new thread and introduce yourself to all of us.
"Pooh," said Rabit kindly, "you haven't any brain." "I know," said Pooh humbly.
No no no! Don't let's start telling everyone to start an introducing thread when they join The Site! It's just when they post a thread asking an often personal question when they haven't introduced themself that it's bad.
But you don't need to introduce yourself to post advice, the fact that you're bothering to post it shows in itself that you're an ok person who cares about what you can give to The Site rather than what you can get.
Of course if you want to introduce yourself any time Holly that's fine..... just don't feel pressured to do it straight away <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Wow, is *~stellar~* going to turn out to be the next amadee or Calvin? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> That's really good!
But this bit:
I don't think is always true, as you're growing up you're changing and so is the other person, and although you may love the person at one point, you're likely to stop loving them later because of the changes going on either in you or in them.
You need to feel all the different kinds of love in order to be able to distinguish between them. And you also need to experience true love at different stages of your life because without mistakes you wouldn't be able to learn what's right for you as an individual.
i totally agree wildchild. i have been in love before. but, both of us changed and we werent in love any more. we still cared a lot about each other... well we tried to stay friends for 2 weeks, but exactly 2 weeks after we split up, he told me he was going out with his best friend (female!). and days before i had been thinking about texting him (xmas day.... we hadnt beeen talking for a few days, had arguments), and teling him i missed him and still loved him. and i didnt, i missed my chance.
but after crying for several days, i realised i did the right thing the first time round, in breaking up with him. we should have broken up several months before really.. but we thought we were still in love coz we were hanging on to the memories of what we used to have and kept thinking that we could get it back to how it used to be and change back to the people we used to be. but as calvin said somewhere, you cant do that, you cant ever go back. you can only move forward. so thats what we did. he's still with the girl 6 months on, im still hurt by what he did, saying he no longer loved me only 2 weeks after we split up. and my love life and my heart is currently a big mess! love's a funny thing.
but *~stellar~* was right, love makes no mistakes. love is never a mistake, in itself. it can cause pain, if other relationships are forged out of something other than love and then love gets in the way... and people can make mistakes because of love, or because they imagine love. like me begging for my bf to get back with me coz i thought i still loved him, when in fact i didnt.
hehe and now ive reached an abrupt end without any kind of point! just needed to say that stuff i think.
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
"Pooh," said Rabit kindly, "you haven't any brain." "I know," said Pooh humbly.
(((((((Emma))))))) You did make a point <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> Can't quite define what it was, but it wasn't a wasted post anyway because I liked reading it!
I didn`t say it cos I thought it wuld get me 'something'. I said it cos I really like her and although I`m not sure if I love her, I didn`t wanna do the old 'thanx' thing cos that'd fuck it up right there.
I said 'it' cos I hope that what I feel for her develops into love (or I realise that it already is) and as I see it, its better to take a chance that that won't happen than to disappoint her and possibly end it before I come to my senses.
Guess different people just have different ways of handling relationships, and, no offence to Stellar or anyone else this applies to, but I think some people attach too much importance to 'those 3 words'. After all, its all in your feelings and actions how you care for someone, not in what you say.
"Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
~ Nietzsche
The three words do have a lot of importance attached to them, even though some use them all the time. We're all different. Often when two people who have different attitudes towards love are together, the situation is liable to flare up due to misunderstandings. That may be the problem.
I stand by this though - saying it without meaning it is not nice at all! (depending on many factors which I've outlined above . . . why do we need disclaimers! lol!)
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What makes an eyebrow flawless?