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why do good guys never get the girl
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hey people - just a thought. the amount of times recently i hear girls telling people and me about how nasty/annoying/unkind etc their boyfriends are, is amazing.
and yet the amount of times i hear these same girls saying 'oh your such a nice guy i don't see how u havent got a girlfriend' is similarly amazing.
why do girls in general go for the bastard blokes, and the nice guys (the ones they say they'd marry) get jack s**t.
maybe its just me being unlucky.
any similar experiences?
and yet the amount of times i hear these same girls saying 'oh your such a nice guy i don't see how u havent got a girlfriend' is similarly amazing.
why do girls in general go for the bastard blokes, and the nice guys (the ones they say they'd marry) get jack s**t.
maybe its just me being unlucky.
any similar experiences?
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there is a tread laying around here some where on this topic. but in short girls like the bad guys cos its 'cool' 'exciting' thay move one thou. its a got the t-shirt kinda thing
I am unfortunatly neither, I'm a decent bloke who's always up for a laugh but I can be a really big knob aswell. I don't get nearly enough action; either from women or from my jigsaw puzzles.
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It's a viscious circle.. speaking from the womans perspective and personally speaking.. we don't go out looking for the bastard but we usually end up with them.. I have yet to meet/date a nice guy.. WHERE THE FUCK ARE THEY.. are they all living on the Isle of Cows???
There is a bastard in all men, regardless of how "nice" they are... the same applies to women i.e. there's a bitch in every woman..
It's all about the thrill of the chase, treat 'em mean keep 'em keen.. HOW TRUE..
If you are a nice guy then you are a rare breed.
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When we get to the age where we are thinking bout gettin married have no fear nice guys... u will win out there, n get the girl because although 'bad' guys seem more exciting at times, the geniune guys who don't go around sleeping wiv other girls (whilst havin a gf) will seem much more appealing! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
xxxs
No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry.
Well im probably what you would call a geek, i wear glasses don't drink don't smoke, and im doing a programming course. But you should see my girlfriend, you wouldn't put us together if you saw her. I don'tnow if it my biggen or my money, but she met before i was rich so it must be love. Been seeing here for 5 years now!
Keep trying fraggle you'll meet the right girl who loves you, i did!
Cheers
Danny
Be good and live hard!
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Well I'm always really friendly with most people, I always look out for my mates, I'm described as being "sound as fuck" a lot of the time, I like getting drunk, stoned and pilled out my head, always up for a laugh but I'm never really a dick to anyone, love goin clubbin, not afraid to try anythin new: gotta try everythin twice!! Oh yeh and I'm studying an internet course at uni.
Edited cos im stoned as fuck and cant type! 'Tis what bongs do tae ya!
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EG: do u know how can u transform a chicken into a pitbull?
u marry her.
work seriously damages health
i mean i consider myself to be friendly, likeable, i try my hardest to be funny (some of the time it works) im not blessed with the looks of brad pitt but then im not unattractive(as many people have said) i enjoy going out and trying to pull( but i dont sleep around) and i love drinking fairly large amounts of alcohol.
the thing im not is one of the guys i often see in clubs who hangs out with their 'boys' and makes sleazy remarks to girls as they walk past. why though girls do i see u 9 time s out of 10 snogging these same blokes?
lifes a bitch...
the best way to find a nice bloke is to ask ur mates to set u up with one, that way you know they will be nice, and the guy wont be intimidated by u walking up to them in a club.
any in my opinion loads of women say they are lookin for a nice guy but deep down they arent *bah humbug* heehee
it always seems amazing to me that someone can moan about their b/f for hours on end but never make the step to split up with them, even though they usually realise they would be a hell of a lot better off with out them.
it seems to me that many women prefer to be going out with a twat than to be single or getting closer to a truly nice guy?
is this a security thing or jsut something to really annoy the nice guys?
fraggle