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One of my old housemates would talk to her mum happily on the phone about sex, including them discussing what their favourite positions were, whether they were dominant or submissive in bed, etc. :eek:
Hell, I wouldn't even kiss my boyfriend on the cheek in front of my mum let alone talk about ANYTHING with her. I've always wanted a mum I could talk to, but she didn't step up. Ah well.
Sorry!
I don't envy them.
I do think it's sad how many of you can't/won't talk to your family about sex....
Why is it sad? Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I know my family are there for me if I want to, but that doesn't mean I need to share details of my private life with them.
*shrug*
I don't particularly want/need to talk to my mum about it. I don't talk to anyone else about it either, except my stepmum (who said she would buy me a vibrator if my dad let her!). I know vaguely how many people my twin has slept with, but that's mostly because I can hear it through the bedroom walls.
I have never ever ever ever felt the need to talk to any of my family members about my sex life. Infact, I never really have. The only time it was mentioned was when my Mum found out about a boyfriend I had and gave me a lecture on protection. Little did she realise that I had been having sex for years.
My parents think I've only slept with one boy, a boy I was with for 3 years where infact, the truth is, I've had sex with boys before and after being in a relationship with him. Infact, I think my parents would be appauled with the figure. Ooops.
I will never be able to talk to my parents about my sex life. Its just like, weird. Its such a private issue. I only talk to my friends about sex and even then, its not about my sex life personally but sex in general.
My Mam would have liked me to have waited till I met somebody I really loved and all, but her and Dad know fine well that I'm a 22 year old boy with glands. So as long as they don't see me at it then I think they sort of don't make an issue of it.
I tell my sister about my girlfriends and that though, she doesn't know the bedroom department details though and I don't want to know hers.
Apparently you can hear it from downstairs as well...
I would actually be very disturbed.
I remember when I heard my Mum and step-dad at it all the time when I used to live with them (like, morning, day and night). Now, that was disturbing.
It's way, WAY worse if you know what they are.
Poor you.
You got a planeeeeeee to Newcastle?! How much did that cost you? Its no wonder you're skint
Rabbits are the nuts tbh. I don't blame you're Mum for getting one. You should get one
Although my mum talks about sex in front of me rather more than I'd like. She had an in-depth conversation about anal fingering at my nephew's 3rd birthday party. And she told me my dad had given up sex for lent while we were out for my birthday this year. I nearly choked on my chicken chow mein
I don't discuss my sex life with anyone other than the person I'm doing it with, and he already knows. Got nothing to prove, tbh.
I might get one, when I have money .
You really should get one. I think its better than sex sometimes tbh, ok, so not quite but like, I've had my biggest orgasms with the rabbit rather than a boy. Maybe I've just had shit lovers though.
I'll think about it .
You have a very nice Mum. I had to pay for my own travel expenses when I went to all my open days :grump:
You should get the boy to buy you a rabbit so when you are apart, you can ummm yeah. Thats what I got James to do! HAHA. It got that bad.
And Kaff, I think I would puke if my mother spoke about anal fingering!!! Are mothers even supposed to know about that sorta thing?
My Mother knows things that I wish she wouldn't tell me about. But then again, we went and watched naked men on stage together, I can hardly moan if she talks to me about stuff like that.
I'm sure they all do, but I don't think they should EVER let on that they do in front of their CHILDREN. Especially not at their GRANDCHILD's party.
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