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Do You Discuss Your Sex Life With Relatives?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
I know all families are different, in my case I can't ever imagine talking to my parents, cousins, etc about my sex life or wanting to here about theirs. Would feel really weird to me .. but I know you're all different so what about yourselves?

Do you chat to relatives or even your parents about sex?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One cousin we sometimes talk in-depth, but mostly no. I have talked to my mum in a roundabout way about sex before, but no details or anything LOL, its just not a conversation that happens naturally.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mom asked if I was on birth control when I moved in with someone once. That was about as far as it would go. I think it was enough for us both :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Usually not. When I was in elementary school, I told my mother I loved this girl, Clara... ahh, what a nice girl, she had the best legos.

    anyway, she was all like "ooohhhh.... matt is in loohooveee..." and calls everyone of her friends to tell around. Since then I don't tell anything, hell it was a pain to keep a LDR going, where I was going to her by train several weeks (I usually don't leave vienna), without her knowing. Well i told her in the end.

    Oh, and it was a pain when I flew to london because of this gal. She said, "WHAT you are flying alone?? forget it, it's stupid."

    "mum, I won't be alone..."

    "do you have a hostel or something?"

    "no, I got somewhere to live."

    "who is he?"

    "it's a she.."

    aaaaaaaaaaaawwwwkwaaaaaaaarrdddddddd!!

    I didn't get "the talk" with my parents either. I think school did a good job of nasty diagrams of vaginas etc. so we little boys knew what's up.

    so generally: no
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know all families are different, in my case I can't ever imagine talking to my parents, cousins, etc about my sex life or wanting to here about theirs. Would feel really weird to me .. but I know you're all different so what about yourselves?

    Do you chat to relatives or even your parents about sex?
    My sister thinks im gay because I never talk about girls in front of her or bring them home. My mum knows I have porn in my safe, so its pretty fucked up here.

    I just get embarrassed talking about girls, sex etc. in front of my family. And tbh its none of there business.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its like one of those conversations that near enough everyone dreads will ever come up... It and drugs are probably the two worst topics to be brought to the table with family - when you're younger anyway...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't tend to talk about my sex life with people I'm not having sex with tbh. Not in any great depth, anyway. I've got some friends who want to know all the details. But frankly, what face I make when I'm cumming is none of their business (not that I've ever looked at myself in a mirror at that moment anyway).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do the general who I'm having "relationship sex" with my mum, but then we've always been able to talk about it. I dont mention my one-night stands etc. because she just dosent understand them. Apart from that not really.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah. Just one of my friends. I do KINDA talk to HIS sister about it though, but not really cause after all "remember, he is my little brother, so dont give me too much in detail." hehe
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a bit with my mam but nothing in depth.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No details, but I have spoken with my Mum about is in general terms.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My cousin, but that's because we're pretty close as friends, and I just talk to her as I would to any other friend in that way.

    Other than that, nope. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    not a chance!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't exactly started talking about Position of the Week with them, but I have talked about it with my mum and my sister before. And my sister's talked with me about it too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i tell my sister whos 2 years younger than me most stuff about my sex life- we're that close really and if i had an older sister id want info as well! tho i spose some people might think its fucked up telling your sister that much as well...
    i dont talk about sex with my prude mother although when shes had the odd drink she comes out with 'have you slept with him?' etc to which i always say no..
    the other night tho i was at this lads house and his mum who was in the room next door textd him saying 'are u gona shag her tonight then? if so keep her gagged cos we dont wana hear!' i thought it was funny but also kinda creepy!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd need a Ouija board, most of 'em are dead :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nooo :sour:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RubberSkin wrote:
    I'd need a Ouija board, most of 'em are dead :)
    and youd really wish you never went to that séance
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and youd really wish you never went to that séance

    I don't know if i'd ever seriously go to a seance. 1. i might learn summat i didn't wanna know. 2. there really could be summat in it all and it might freak em out a bit ! :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I talk to my sister about stuff, not in detail but in kind of "when you do this is it meant to..." etc, on the basis she;s got more experience than me. But we dont go into who has what fetish and what he does that turns us on. My mum trys to get me to talk about my sex life with her, which results in me clamming up completely.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll talk to some of my family about anything. Most people are amazed at the things I discuss with my grandmother :).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah, noat, nadda, never.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and my sister know weve both lost our virginity, and i know more about her sex life then she does mine, i.e. who she has had sex with. i remember she told me a few months into her first long relationship mum asked her if shed haad sex with him and is she using contraception - i dread the day this happens to me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No way! My Mum still thinks i'm a virgin, seriously she does. And it would probably break my Dad's heart if he thought otherwise. My Brother knows I'm not, and I know he's not.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha no way. :nervous:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My mum only thinks I've slept with one person, which I definatley havemt.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it would freak me out. :yuck:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, I get some of my best tips from my slutty aunts :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sure, my mum goes so far as to ask me to keep it quiet in front of the girls, who tend to go beetroot red whilst I laugh. Ah well. Dont go into details though, just say if anything happened last night, like a normal conversation :confused: it doesn't seem to be an issue. Though I did tell her the bondage girl was fucked up :p lol. And she teased me about it :(
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