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Guys= losing your virginity
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just started uni and im getting a lot of offers to get laid but i think id rather wait untill im with someone i care about, is this being stupid and girly or is it a normal feeling to have, i dont want to miss an oppurtunity but i dont want to regret it at the end of the day is a drunken one night stand any different from a wank? anyone gone through the same decision?
p.s. ive never had a gf im not really worried i think i could if i wanted just not too confident + havent met anyone that special yet (last question i promise is it stupid to be too picky?)
p.s. ive never had a gf im not really worried i think i could if i wanted just not too confident + havent met anyone that special yet (last question i promise is it stupid to be too picky?)
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I always think its better for people to lose it with someone they care about, as you need that emotional support afterwards with that special someone.
I wasn't too fussed about waiting but the girl I lost it to I ended up marrying. I'm sure there's a moral in there somewhere.
Not that I say, it really does, but if she's some kind of bitch and tells around... well.
It's your decision, actually I am not a "waiting" guy. It's an opportunity to get experience, it's somewhat like passing a lesson (or passing some std's so be protected).
just go ahead and do as you feel, don't get biased about what some interbutt-weirdos say.
True. And if you're in a couple, it makes getting laid the second, third, fourth time much, much easier.
Plus, if it doesn't go brilliantly, if you're in a strong couple you can work through it. While a string of bad one-night-stands will likely make the situation worse.
And no, there's nothing wrong with being picky. Just so long as you're giving each girl a proper chance, rather than writing them off for the first superficial thing that doesn't fit your dream girl.
mine was neither. i just waited till it was someone who it felt right with - i didn't want to be with them or anything.