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young women - it's your world
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If you are a young woman - say 20 something up to, well, as young as you feel... the world is really your oyster.
Young, pretty, smart, social creature, economically independent. Leading in education. Centre of all things social...
Guys are like buses, there will be another along in 5 minutes. Take guys for granted. We are ignored most of the time.
Social creatures, access to any situation by default without suspicion of sneaky agenda.
Do you agree?
The way I see it, it seems that way. I don't necessarily object. As a guy I have to evolve with it. Change or die.
Discuss?
Young, pretty, smart, social creature, economically independent. Leading in education. Centre of all things social...
Guys are like buses, there will be another along in 5 minutes. Take guys for granted. We are ignored most of the time.
Social creatures, access to any situation by default without suspicion of sneaky agenda.
Do you agree?
The way I see it, it seems that way. I don't necessarily object. As a guy I have to evolve with it. Change or die.
Discuss?
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as this is one of kermits pet hates, i'd like to see what he says...
Eh?
Christ, a lot of young women aren't ANY of these things, let alone all.
Y'know you can be male and be like that, too. Save for the pretty.
Gentlemen (or in your case boys) are not "pretty" (unless they're that strange type).
I actually do agree, in part. I think it's a pretty decent time to be a young woman in many respects, especially social. Though maybe it's just the (lucky) experiences I've had
Not that it's a bad time to be a young man, either.
There are socially defunct individuals and social butterflies of both sexes, of course.
I think he has a point, though a small one. It seems that most of the women who do fit these characteristics, or at least some of them, just have to look nice and have many guys interested in them at once. While guys usually still have to make the first move.
Maybe, but 99% of the girls I've been with - I couldn't tell you who made the first move, so it's pretty irrelevant.
That's the way it goes, but some guys still forget that girls get shy and nervous and in a state about whether a guy fancies them.
If more guys would drop the male bravado shit, actually be themselves and just speak to people without any alterior motives (i.e trying to get in her pants), then they'd be less likely to come home on their own and thus they'd lose all this woe is me shit.
Maybe that's just me and is nothing to do with anything, I dunno.
It's not even that though, I've very rarely intentionally gone out on the pull.
If I'm in a position when I'm talking to some girl or anyone else (be it at work or in a nightclub or wherever), then I'll talk about random shit and try and be funny = like I would be with anyone = being myself.
If I like the look of a girl, then my first thought isn't "I wanna do her", it's more "I wonder what she's like", talk to her and get to know her, and if we've enjoyed the conversation and there's a connection then I'm sure we'd swap numbers.
That's maybe me just me though, I personally don't chase girls unless somethings sort of already happened, and that's just it - most of the time stuff just seems to happen naturally.
Yes I did.
Isn't that what your supposed to do if you really like/want a girl?
I read a lot about houllebeqc's theory of sexual dysfunction by girls nowadays. It's a really interesting and accredited theory that compares sexuality with open market mechanics. I usually don't take everything i read at face value, but it's very interesting and makes sense too. Many great thinkers occupy with that topic.
read into it.
I agree that there are women like this, but there are also men like this too, I know a few of my mates to whom this description fits rather well. I'm not like this at all, but instead of being bitter about it (not that i'm saying you are) I try and emulate some of what they do and how they do it. So rather then see it as a problem, I see it as an inspiration. "Yeah, I'd liek to be a little bit more like that!"
my friend has a boyfriend like that....he goes off on sulks if she does something to upset him. And its usually nothing. As a result she's petrified of losing him and has become his puppy dog.