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Oh dear.
Do you think its true that men who abuse women were orignally nice guys that got blown out by girls or the one they liked?
I don't think it's anything to do with being rejected by someone you liked though, more feeling shit about yourself as a person, your achievements etc. Which is why everyone advises that before you get into a relationship, try and get to a stage where you're reasonably happy with yourself.
Relax Matt, we're just taking the piss. Whatever works for ya. :thumb: I prefer the approach that takes itself less seriously myself.
You what?
:eek2:
Not to sure about why Bi women intimidate you, not to sure why we are talking about bi women (unless I have missed something).
No. you didn't miss anything, just something thats been on my mind. Something to talk about.
I really dont think you should be worried about competeting with other girls.
You'll do alright then.
People come and go in life, you do seem like a bit of an emotional boy, which is cool, but try not to let it define you if you feel it's dragging you down. Focusing on yourself is a good idea i.e what kind of things you like doing, what makes you happy, and let stuff like that be who you are, rather than worrying about whether what you are is acceptable or not.
I still get really shy and stuff about girls I like, but just be yourself around them as much as you can, make jokes and speak about stuff you like, have a good chat and stuff.
It's because they know what they're doing
Nah, I'm just kidding. There are far fewer lipstick lesbians and bisexuals knocking about than an average night out in town/dander on myspace would have you believe. Of course there are a signifigant number of gay and bisexual women about, but there also seems to be a bit of a trend among girls to claim bisexuality at the moment, lads too but to a lesser extent.
If a girl's gay or more interested in womankind than she is in you then there's no point dwelling on it as they know their own mind. Move on, there are a hell of a lot of women around who are interested in menand men alone!
Cool, the important thing to try and remember is don't let your past define yourself.
Fuck yes, the past sometimes affects the future, but if you get more confident in the funny/intelligent/sarky/bitchy/whatever (delete as applicable) person that you are, then you'll feel a lot better about who you are and you'll be more able to cope when things do go tits up with a girl or whatever.
It's cool to be yourself, but it's so much better if you actually like who you are too, y'know?
Worrying about whether bi girls aren't going to go for you is irrelevant really, sometimes if you're really down on yourself then you'll start inventing worries that aren't important at all.