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And I just went to a meeting and was chatted up/sleazed upon by a balding guy in his 50s in a purple suit, who said: "You're single, I'm single, how about it?" and gave me his mobile number.
No wonder I'm single if that's what I attract.
Aw, I wish I was more witty, that would've been a well good comeback
I'd remember it for next time, but I really doubt there's anyone else on the planet that would try that line.
He also asked me to rape him....
at the end of the night he went "do you want to come back to mine? you can see my camelian" (as in lizard, i cant spel!)
i passed
Chameleon?
Oh I've had all that crap shouted at me before heh, just never "I love you!". Weirdo. Kept me giggling though.
And OI Rich, you have a pushbike also. I don't particularly need a motorbike to drain my already depleting resource of money
LOL!
If a girl came up and said that to me i'd be all theirs!
By some beutiful Eastern European women. (and she is 22 :cool: )
Same
One question - at what point in the chatting up process is the right time to tell someone you're not interested? I find it difficult.
Too early and they might not even be chatting you up at all, just being friendly, and I'm all for a nice chat with someone, especially when it's a friend of a friend, like last night, and not just a total randomer. Then they'll think you're a massive weirdo cause they were only being nice, and tbh wouldn't touch you with someone else's.
But then leave it too late and you feel a bit like you've wasted everyone's time and led them on a bit.
I opted for the 'pretend someone is ringing you and run away' tactic at the mid-point between these, which obviously is the smoothest possible way to deal. :chin:
But proper chatting up? I think maybe once. But she was over 40 and I quickly made my escape.
err thanks!