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I was just wondering, if you are hugging/holding a guy, how obvious is it if he has an erection?
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usually it is obvious :yes:
Its cool though. Unless its a family member, but i dont hug family members so that should never happen.
It depends who you are dancing with or hugging, and why.
If you get a hard-on giving your gran a cuddle you should be sectioned, but if you get stiff whilst getting off with a fit lass in a club then I'd be more worried if you didn't get hard. And so would the girl.
All guys can do that, and it doesn't hurt. It hurts less than having it poking straight out in fact, its designed to fold upwards against the body, but not downwards :eek2:
Ahh it's not just my ex being strange then makes a change
and yes, i always notice. and take it as a compliment :flirt:
only when it's my guy tho. it used to amuse me with other guys, but now it would just annoy me...
I take it as a compliment, and once you get to the hugging point baggy trousers probably make it more obvious than tighter ones.
With other guys, sometimes I notice and sometimes I have an inkling but don't want to get any closer in order to find out. Dancing in clubs is when it's always an issue. Sometimes it's a turn on and other times you want to leg it through a fire exit asap. Poor lads.
It was still BLATANTLY obvious to me that he had one though, even when he did that. Huge fuck off bulge, much?
yea, each day. When I get up with morning wood I always tuck it there (so that it does not look out at the top obviously^^), since I run around in boxers a lot, and don't live alone.
@Kermit:
Yea, of course it's all a psychological thing. When I - hypothetically - hug a man, or my gran, as you said, then I won't get a hardy of course.
I was just thinking that many girls aren't THAT familiar with male erection mechanics, so that they might be "oh no... that's embarrassing" when they feel it while dancing for example.
Oh really? Why is that? I thought in baggy trousers there is just more "fabric" inbetween. I am a baggy wearer myself :chin:
Hehe...
"Oh my... what the..?"
"IT'S MY CELLPHONE, I SWEAR!"
Doesn't usually make it much less obvious though, to be honest.
Bonus points if you've got it on vibrate!
to put it in smileys:
She: :eek2:
you: :nervous:
*vibrates*
she: :flirt: :hyper:
you:
That about sums it up :razz: