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gettin a girlfriend
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Hey yall.
well i have no problems asking a girl out and all, and i can usually tell if a girl likes me or not, the only prob is taht i dont know how to ask them to be my girlfriend, or take it further.
I just know how to ask em out on a date.
please help me out, and give me a way to say it without making it sound corny
thanks for all your help
well i have no problems asking a girl out and all, and i can usually tell if a girl likes me or not, the only prob is taht i dont know how to ask them to be my girlfriend, or take it further.
I just know how to ask em out on a date.
please help me out, and give me a way to say it without making it sound corny
thanks for all your help
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As for taking it further with a girl, I think you should ahve casual chats about it etc but I'm not into planning these things, stuff like that happens best on its own.
Good Luck
"some rarely touch it but it touches them often." Stanley, Streetcar Named Desire, Tennessee Williams
One of you HAS to take the bull by the horns and say something. There will NEVER be the "right time", so you have to make do with an "alright time". Then, tell her that you really enjoy her company, flatter her, make her feel very special (tell her how much you like her laugh/smile/sense of humour/dress sense/etc.) Then say something like "could we make this a bit more involved?" or "Could we take this relationship a bit further?" something like that...
I can't guarantee that it'll work, but I can guarantee that if neither of you say something, you'll end up in a few months time being her best friend who she comes to to cry on your shoulder over her current bloke interest!
I just wish I'd learned this lesson 9-10 months ago!
Snowman
Just ask to see them again, say you really like their company.....
If nothing happens in a relationship, its normally because the two of you don't have enough in common.
Just make sure everyone knows where they stand, but try not to pressure people into an immediate desicion. Just say you really like being with them.
TaTa for now
love kelly