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splitting up when i go
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so i asked...he said no and now were breaking up when i go away.
i dont know if thats what i want but i suppose now its not up to me. i wouldnt have minded giving it a try and yes part of me knows that it wouldnt have worked but now have the last 8 months meant nothing?, been for nothing?
how am i meant to just walk away? he says that hes gonna ring me when im there to make sure im ok and making friends! but again is this what i want? part of me says yes because i need to speak to him, the other part knows ill probably take more from it than he means.
how do i react when i see him when i come back, worse, what do i do if hes with a girl?
maybe the amicable split isnt such a good idea, at the end of the day i will always want to be with him, so how can i get over these feelings, on the other hand do i actually want us to be together at all?
sooo confused, but i guess like i said, doesnt matter what i think now
i dont know if thats what i want but i suppose now its not up to me. i wouldnt have minded giving it a try and yes part of me knows that it wouldnt have worked but now have the last 8 months meant nothing?, been for nothing?
how am i meant to just walk away? he says that hes gonna ring me when im there to make sure im ok and making friends! but again is this what i want? part of me says yes because i need to speak to him, the other part knows ill probably take more from it than he means.
how do i react when i see him when i come back, worse, what do i do if hes with a girl?
maybe the amicable split isnt such a good idea, at the end of the day i will always want to be with him, so how can i get over these feelings, on the other hand do i actually want us to be together at all?
sooo confused, but i guess like i said, doesnt matter what i think now
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