If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
Essential support for under 25s
Essential support for under 25s
Take a look around and enjoy reading the discussions. If you'd like to join in, it's really easy to register and then you'll be able to post. If you'd like to learn what this place is all about, head here.
Comments
put it this way: im no mattliverpool but im no lifeless neither...
Dudes man I really wanna watch what I say because I don't want it thrown back in my face or get slated. Want an example? look at lifeless'es thread, almost 4,000 views of his misogenistic postings and a load of peeps giving him a bollocking for it.
Im just kinda forlorn and a bit disolussioned on women.
There are so many varying factors and possibilities involved in telling someone you like them. So if you give us a generic question, we can only really give you generic advice mate.
The plastic surgeons did a pretty good job and you could not really tell if you looked at me from 10 feet away now.
what if you like her for aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaages?
ok....
congradulations I guess...
:nervous: :nervous: :nervous:
if she doesn't she'll probably think your whole relationship with her was a facade of friendship with the sneaky motive of getting into her pants.
And her reaction won't be pretty so I'd get yourself signed up with BUPA first.
its just that all the shit I read about like do this and it will work, then dont do that do this but you have X amount of time.
Its enough to drive a man absolutly batty!
say the girl you likes a friend of a friend
and BTW id never make friends with a random girl just to fuck her, its not me..
thats why I ask questions to try and dispell these stupid thoughts but it doesn't work for long.
just saying how I feel at the minute
...so don't
I'm sure you have plenty of productive relationships with friends, family etc.
Girlfriend? Be open to the possibility but don't let it dominate your thoughts....it's a waste of grey matter.
It haunts me...
There are days when I can't sleep because im just hurting..
I just want it to fucking stop. I've been like this for 3 years...
I wish I never fell in love....
Dissimilar to you, I don't have qualms about telling girls that have been friends for some time, that I like them. But those girls usually ain't friends for much longer then -_- They cannot handle it.
You better don't tell her, if you can't waive her friendship.
Try it the flirty way, if she reciprocates then it's more likely to make a move, even though I had bad experiences there as well.
Guess no-one has so many unlucky "I am sorry, I don't feel for you that way"-stories, than me
Don't understand people like this.
I can't tell the story its just too painfull.
For the girls: would you get a mate to fuck the guy off if you didnt like him
and what if the mate did it without the girl knowing
The wife was a friend before, and I just leaned in and kissed her, and its all been great since.
thank you, for keeping the illusion alive that there are other - in the sense of 'right' - girls too. yes, yes, don't get a "there are all different kinds of girls for everyone" speech started now, but after long observation times you just notice similar patterns, it's one species after all.
I am not sure tho, if it's them, or if I am doing something wrong and they are just to chicken to tell me about it, when I ask them :grump:
if you did piss her off/upset her and apologise should she forgive you
That's up to her.
I really hope she dont hate me
In your situation, I don't know the details, but at least you can say you tried. Better 'n some people can do.
why would she hate you for telling her that you like her?
Maybe I should just speak to her when her mates arn't around so they dont interfere...