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help a guy restore his faith in girls again?
BillieTheBot
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A simple yes or no answer would suffice please.
If a guy told you he liked you, would you be pissed/hate him for telling you?
what should you do then?
If a guy told you he liked you, would you be pissed/hate him for telling you?
what should you do then?
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however if
1, i didnt return his feelings i would feel uncomfortable
2, if he constantly told me he liked me after i said i dint feel the same then yes i would start to get pissed off.
I find this alot.
I've experienced this in the past and find that if someone costantly tells me they like me (or implies it) then I will get pissed on and tell them to stop it.
what do you mean feel uncomfortable
What I would do would depend on a lot of factors. Such as whether I knew him or we were strangers, whether I reciprocated the feelings in any way, and whether or not he actually wanted some kind of response or was just looking to get his feelings out in the open.
It's not really a simple question, to be honest.
As for feeling uncomfortable - for some odd reason, whenever anyone tells me they like me, I feel uncomfortable anyway (no idea why) but it's probably something to do with feeling bad about how I respond to someones feelings.
uncomfortable in the way that id be worried i was leading him on if i did hug him etc (may just be of my past experience though) also if it was a close relationship i might find it hard to be close again especially discussing issues such as relationships
Do you have a specific dilemma or is this all hypothetical? :chin:
Why would it be?
Indeed
I know, god do I know...
I don't wanna say...
we might have even been in the same situation before, and remember we have no idea who you are! it all anonymous i find that easier,
to be honest the amount of times ive posted paranoid posts on here expecting to be made fun of and everyones been helpful to me, especially briggi!!
Indeed. ANd it doesn't get that ugly.
I did this to a friend of a friend a few months ago. It was weird, because the way he reacted was so different to the way I thought he'd react.
So you would think, but some people just aren't wired that way. My mates are always professing love/lust/the horn to people who are so, so obviously not interested in that way. I wouldn't dream of it, but clearly hold my pride in higher esteem than they do theirs
Someone did this to me one time, even though I did make it clear that I wasn't interested in him.:yeees:
how'd he react?
I havn't got the bollocks to just grab the girl I like a just plant a wet one on her (I dont want to get pepper sprayed or have her scream RAPE!).
Imwithstupid: Like your example, Guy: I like you. Girl: and......? very funny
I wouldn't say Im unconfident (I'll admit ive got flaws but I try not to let them stop me) but then again I wouldn't go up to a girl and say "can I fuck you"?
would this sound like confidence to you?
a mate of mine goes into KFC and sees a employee with large *ahem* assets and says "can I have 2 sucullent breasts please?"
He said something along the lines of 'That is very sweet of you. I am extremely flattered'. (Not sure if those were his exact words, but he said something like that) Then he just totally changed the subject.
I've had at least 2 people do this to me in the last 15 months or so. IMO, that's the wrong way of going about getting a girl.
Well that's not the situation I'm talking about then. I'd never do such a thing and I'd never let anyone put their smackers anywhere near mine unless I wanted them to. But yeah, actions really do speak louder than words, but only if you have the confidence to implement them... otherwise you'll go in halfway for the kill and then hesitate or similar. So if you don't have the confidence I think that, as IWS said, you need to get the feelings out there and take it slowly from that point over time.
That KFC comment is the most toe-curling thing I've ever heard in a while, and not in a good way :crazyeyes Please don't tell me someone actually said that? Surefire way of getting a phlegmdrip in your popcorn chicken :thumb:
Maybe not a great opening line, but if he already knew her a bit, then she might find it funny. Otherwise, about as likely to get you a phone number as wolf whistling to a girl across the street.