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it seems im not good at hiding how i feel and my boyfriend asked me right out did i fancy his mate, i couldnt exactly lie (well i could have but i'd have felt terrible) and he finished with me. told me i made him look stupid in front of his mates and he doesnt wanna see me again
to be fair, i'd probably have thought the same. lads are like that, its just the same as there are unwritten rules that you dont get with a mates ex etc..
it makes you look like a fool. most people stick to these rules.
if my girlfriend said she fancied my mate i'd be fair pissed off as well. i'd never say that about one of her friends.
sorry to hear that tho, hopefully he'll come round!!
Well if you made it obvious enough that he actually guessed then I suppose maybe you did make him look like a tit in front of his mates - and it's hard to do anything worse than dent your boyfriend's ego and make him look like a fool in front of his pals. Hopefully as koe says he will come around, but it would be hard for anyone to accept that and go back to a relationship -- I know it'd always be in the back of my mind.
I'd never admit to fancying one of my boyfriend's mates, we're pretty open about who we think is attractive etc but there's a huuuge leap between the two things. Maybe it's for the best, if you fancy someone else to the point where other people (especially your s.o) is noticing then maybe something's not quite right with the relationship anyway.... hope you feel alright though, keep your chin up
Matt - I do that with teabags, milk etc all the time. I've even thrown full yoghurts in the bin and kept the foil lid in my hand. Same with teaspoons, all the time. I'm losing it
It will get worse now you are pregnant
i dont even fancy him, i just think he's good lookin!
You said your bf asked if you faniced him and you said you couldn't lie. So if you don't fancy him why didn't you say you don't?
Crocheting is wonderful. It just comes up so quickly. I love it :hyper:
Don't say that! I don't know how it could get much worse
because to him its the same thing. i told him i just think he's good looking and he said its the same as fancying him. but its not
they are nice though!
they were buy one get one free and i gave about 5 of them to other people so that makes me feel slightly better. ish.
What I should NOT have done was think about trying to get back together with him. Meh.
I probably shouldnt have texted Rosie today and said I hoped she was ok and that I want to be friends after everything has blown over.
Meh seconded.
*hangs head in shame*
eta: although I did do something good which may in part make up for it
What did you do?
and on the subject of packets of jaffa cakes and hobnobs ... what the hells wrong with eating a packet or two i do it all the time when im stoned, and thats in a matter of minutes not days!
i reckon forcing someone with a few fillings to chew a bit of tin foil would be a good form of torture!
:yes:
I can still feel it now, im trying to chew gum hoping it'll take the horrible feeling away. In fairness i shouldnt have been chewing a wrapper in the first place but thats not the point.
Started sewing - as I keep making cushion covers. I just need cushions
Errrrrm...that's it. I have many regrets but feel if I learn positively from them, it's not something that shouldn't have happened.
No! *hugs* not yet anyway I might tell you tomorrow. Or the day after.
Now my sleep pattern is buggered and I wake up after 9. This coming from a guy who's been getting up at about 5am ever since he was little.