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If you were Dating someone for a while and found out they did PORNO?>
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how would you feel?
would you feel betrayed? would you still date them....would you dump them on the spot?
or is it no big deal.
would you feel betrayed? would you still date them....would you dump them on the spot?
or is it no big deal.
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It'd probabally depend on how it came up. If the girl told me she did it, i'd probabally be ok with it. But if one of my friends was like DUDE I SAW YOUR GIRLFRIEND IN A PORNO i'd be pissed. It would also depend on the extent. If she was in a movie with 1 guy... or consistantly 1 guy, i'd be happier than if she was in with a different guy each time.
If the relationship became serious either way i'd probabally end it. I'm very territorial about those things, I wouldn't be able to handle it.
I don't really assosiate myself with sexually open girls anyways though, so i'd probabally never have to deal with that
i wouldnt even want to date a girl who does porn or has done porno...but girls know that its a bad thing so if they quit doing porno they will hide it from you which i think is wrong...they should be honest if they got in it in the first place then tell the guy you did porno before why lie to get someone to love you?
its best to tell these things before you guys start kissing or making love or even getting serious...id think about the 3rd date would be good.
it would just suck if the person you were dating waited till you felll in love with them and told you.
And me. Was just thinking of it.
I already had a sexual relationship with her before I found out, didn't change my opinion of her or whatever.
If she'd told me she wanted to do it as a career then I might have changed my mind, probably not though.
I'm pretty liberal.
Why would it different if she had chosen that as a "career" and not just the odd time for £400 an hour?
I said maybe, but probably not. Gimme a break, eh..
Depends on how long she wants her career to last, you get me!! Coz I would wanna have kids and all that...
I wasn't having a go, I was just curious
So you would discount having children with someone who was making porn films, but you would ("maybe") still have a relationship with them?
Where did I say that?
I would want to have children whether it be with someone who was making porn films or not. Hell, maybe we would make a couple of amateur porn films for personal use!! :yes:
Well just because you said you would maybe consider a relationship with someone making porn and it depends on how long she wants her career to last, as you want to have kids...
I was confused by what you meant...hence my question mark.
Exactly, so if she wanted to do porn until she was like 40 or whatever, and I wanted to have kids at 30, then that would be a problem. Luckily, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't want to have kids, so all is good!
So would you have children with someone who was making porn? That was kinda my question before...
I suppose I'm just getting at the fact that people making porn films or whatever might still want to have children...even whilst maintaining a porn career and I was wondering if you would be ok with that.
I tend to disagree with you there. I think that people in the porn business who decide to have children would not want to carry on with their career as for one how would she describe to her kid all these other men she is sleeping with other than the dad.
Would you do porn and bring up a kid at the same time?
:yuck:
Yes, yes it would :yes:
There's always the Phoebe and Ursula explanation.
Oh that's not me honey, it's my twin sister.
I wouldn't make porn in the first place to be honest :no:
I am sure though that there are porn actors who have children, i dont know any personally but there must be quite a few.
Though your kid would proably know his aunt, and be just as weirded out.
Anyways, thats off topic...
:yes:
But no, he wouldn't know his aunt, because she doesn't exist...
Oh I'm so lost *goes to take a nap* i wish
mull it over, while you are simulating your nap...:razz:
now i would probally have sex with a porn star but no kissing lol.