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If you were Dating someone for a while and found out they did PORNO?>

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
how would you feel?

would you feel betrayed? would you still date them....would you dump them on the spot?

or is it no big deal.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If they were in a porn movie?
    It'd probabally depend on how it came up. If the girl told me she did it, i'd probabally be ok with it. But if one of my friends was like DUDE I SAW YOUR GIRLFRIEND IN A PORNO i'd be pissed. It would also depend on the extent. If she was in a movie with 1 guy... or consistantly 1 guy, i'd be happier than if she was in with a different guy each time.
    If the relationship became serious either way i'd probabally end it. I'm very territorial about those things, I wouldn't be able to handle it.
    I don't really assosiate myself with sexually open girls anyways though, so i'd probabally never have to deal with that
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm, there's two types of porno. There's the one you do with your girl/boyfriend which isn't really a big deal (but can easily get into the wrong hands). And there's the type with a full cast and crew, which I'd probably be a bit more apprehensive about.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im talking about that filthy reality pornos you see on the net...you know average girls having sex for money and stuff.

    i wouldnt even want to date a girl who does porn or has done porno...but girls know that its a bad thing so if they quit doing porno they will hide it from you which i think is wrong...they should be honest if they got in it in the first place then tell the guy you did porno before why lie to get someone to love you?

    its best to tell these things before you guys start kissing or making love or even getting serious...id think about the 3rd date would be good.

    it would just suck if the person you were dating waited till you felll in love with them and told you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd rather find out about it in an early stage, otherwise I probably would end up dumping them. It's not especially nice meeting your girlfriend in the knowledge she's had other men's cum over her body earlier that day.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as it wasn't the swirley guy *and* he wanted me to partake. Toilet water is too cold for my liking and I just don't think we could have a healthy successful relationship when our sexual interests were so far off.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would I feel betrayed by someone else doing porno??? Weird question.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that reminds me of the the movie 'the girl next door'...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    foreign wrote:
    that reminds me of the the movie 'the girl next door'...

    And me. Was just thinking of it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One of my friends has done porn, shoots, movies, internet site, the lot, I would have sex with her ocassionally and she would talk about it. I never had any opinions about it and also she is damn good in bed. She's a normal girl, and the reason she's done porn was because they paid her £400 per hour! Spoke to her on Sunday, she's getting married in December, lookin forward to the wedding.

    I already had a sexual relationship with her before I found out, didn't change my opinion of her or whatever.
    If she'd told me she wanted to do it as a career then I might have changed my mind, probably not though.
    I'm pretty liberal.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    One of my friends has done porn, shoots, movies, internet site, the lot, I would have sex with her ocassionally and she would talk about it. I never had any opinions about it and also she is damn good in bed. She's a normal girl, and the reason she's done porn was because they paid her £400 per hour! Spoke to her on Sunday, she's getting married in December, lookin forward to the wedding.

    I already had a sexual relationship with her before I found out, didn't change my opinion of her or whatever.
    If she'd told me she wanted to do it as a career then I might have changed my mind, probably not though.
    I'm pretty liberal.

    Why would it different if she had chosen that as a "career" and not just the odd time for £400 an hour?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would it different if she had chosen that as a "career" and not just the odd time for £400 an hour?

    I said maybe, but probably not. Gimme a break, eh.. :)
    Depends on how long she wants her career to last, you get me!! Coz I would wanna have kids and all that...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    I said maybe, but probably not. Gimme a break, eh.. :)
    Depends on how long she wants her career to last, you get me!! Coz I would wanna have kids and all that...

    I wasn't having a go, I was just curious :)

    So you would discount having children with someone who was making porn films, but you would ("maybe") still have a relationship with them?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wasn't having a go, I was just curious :)

    So you would discount having children with someone who was making porn films, but you would ("maybe") still have a relationship with them?

    Where did I say that?

    I would want to have children whether it be with someone who was making porn films or not. Hell, maybe we would make a couple of amateur porn films for personal use!! :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    Where did I say that?

    I would want to have children whether it be with someone who was making porn films or not. Hell, maybe we would make a couple of amateur porn films for personal use!! :yes:


    Well just because you said you would maybe consider a relationship with someone making porn and it depends on how long she wants her career to last, as you want to have kids...

    I was confused by what you meant...hence my question mark.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well just because you said you would maybe consider a relationship with someone making porn and it depends on how long she wants her career to last, as you want to have kids...

    I was confused by what you meant...hence my question mark.

    Exactly, so if she wanted to do porn until she was like 40 or whatever, and I wanted to have kids at 30, then that would be a problem. :) Luckily, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't want to have kids, so all is good!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    Exactly, so if she wanted to do porn until she was like 40 or whatever, and I wanted to have kids at 30, then that would be a problem. :) Luckily, I have yet to meet a woman who didn't want to have kids, so all is good!

    So would you have children with someone who was making porn? That was kinda my question before...

    I suppose I'm just getting at the fact that people making porn films or whatever might still want to have children...even whilst maintaining a porn career and I was wondering if you would be ok with that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wouldn't it be just ackward, your teenage son is checking out some "vintage" porn and comes across you getting banged at the firehouse by all the firemen :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So would you have children with someone who was making porn? That was kinda my question before...

    I suppose I'm just getting at the fact that people making porn films or whatever might still want to have children...even whilst maintaining a porn career and I was wondering if you would be ok with that.

    I tend to disagree with you there. I think that people in the porn business who decide to have children would not want to carry on with their career as for one how would she describe to her kid all these other men she is sleeping with other than the dad.
    Would you do porn and bring up a kid at the same time?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    Wouldn't it be just ackward, your teenage son is checking out some "vintage" porn and comes across you getting banged at the firehouse by all the firemen :p


    :yuck:

    Yes, yes it would :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    Wouldn't it be just ackward, your teenage son is checking out some "vintage" porn and comes across you getting banged at the firehouse by all the firemen :p

    There's always the Phoebe and Ursula explanation.
    Oh that's not me honey, it's my twin sister.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    I tend to disagree with you there. I think that people in the porn business who decide to have children would not want to carry on with their career as for one how would she describe to her kid all these other men she is sleeping with other than the dad.
    Would you do porn and bring up a kid at the same time?


    I wouldn't make porn in the first place to be honest :no:

    I am sure though that there are porn actors who have children, i dont know any personally but there must be quite a few.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    There's always the Phoebe and Ursula explanation.
    Oh that's not me honey, it's my twin sister.

    :confused: Though your kid would proably know his aunt, and be just as weirded out.

    Anyways, thats off topic...
  • Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Warming up? Posts: 16,688
    my_name wrote:
    :confused: Though your kid would proably know his aunt, and be just as weirded out.

    Anyways, thats off topic...
    Not to mention that she'd be an aunt that looks exactly like mum, so might as well have been her.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not to mention that she'd be an aunt that looks exactly like mum, so might as well have been her.

    :lol: :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    :confused: Though your kid would proably know his aunt, and be just as weirded out.

    But no, he wouldn't know his aunt, because she doesn't exist... ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    migpilot wrote:
    But no, he wouldn't know his aunt, because she doesn't exist... ;)

    Oh I'm so lost :p *goes to take a nap* i wish
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my_name wrote:
    Oh I'm so lost :p *goes to take a nap* i wish

    mull it over, while you are simulating your nap...:razz:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I personally would not marry or date a chick doing porno because first i dont like germs or other mans cum on my wifes mouth before i kiss her, and 2nd i like kissing...

    now i would probally have sex with a porn star but no kissing lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's with all these questions?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Isn't that what this place is for?
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