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Hey guys and gals im new here, ill get straight to the point though. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a good four months and we get on reallly well, but ive got a small problem which I dont quite understand. We've messed around sexualy and its great, she gives me head really often and always grabs me in that area, but as soon as i do anything to her she will push my hand away and carry on. I dont quite understand it, shes done it numerous times, its not just a one off...at least 8 times now over a 2-3 week period. Its been getting me down a bit because I want to do things for her too. When I ask her whats wrong she jst says - "nothing" or if i ask why i cant she says "dont know". I assume it will change as our relationship develops but what do you people think I could do?
Thanks for any replies
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and everytime anyone replies in this thread to you, it will be their own opinion
Then again, there could be a completely different reason.
Yeh she does let me touch he breats, thanks for the advice too, that helps alot .
just take things slowly with her. touch her legs and aorund that area.. but keep outside of her pants for a while until you think shes more ready.
communication is key
Just take it slow, maybe cool off the sexual stuff for a bit, that way you don't feel like she's doing all the giving. And like the others said, just touch her around that area. Maybe ask her to tell you if she wants to go any further, and then just be patient!
Thanks again
Chill out and go with the flow. She'll make the moves when shes ready.:)