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Quite honestly this is a terrible idea, it's only going to end up with people getting hurt, you included. You don't want to lose your virginity to a guy who only sees you as a vagina, to put it bluntly, and if he's thinking of cheating on his girlfriend then that's all he does see you as. If he was interested in you as a person then he'd have dumped his girlfriend before hitting on you.
How old are you? Because you seem very young, no guy is a once in a lifetime opportunity, there are plenty of fish in the sea and sure, if you keep casting your net into this one little rockpool then he's all you're going to catch, but look elsewhere and you'll find others you want just as much. Might take a bit of searching, but they're out there.
And if you think you can't do better than this dickhead, then you've got some real self-esteem issues. I know everyone's been a bit harsh on this thread, but seriously, it's in your own interest to take their advice and tell this guy to fuck off.
thanks this is just the guy that I've had the most sexual desire for, and it turns out that its muttual, it will be hard to find another guy that you know is on the same level as you. Im 19.
Just move on & forget about him.
it isnt mutual feelings. He will fuck you and wont be interested in you after - FACT. and whether you believe it now, you will fill like a piece of shit, because that is as much worth as you are giving yourself and what he is giving you.
piece of advice - NEVER settle for being someones bit on the side.
The right person will come along one day - probably sooner than you think, and it wont be this bloke, even if you do fancy him at the moment.
If you let this guy cheat on his girlfriend with you, then rest assured, you will get karma and someone you love will cheat on you. Thats how life works. You reap what you sow.
And in answer to the original question, if you came near my boyfriend with thoughts like that I would be leaving an indent of my fist in your face.