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Your boyfriends cheating on you with me
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Hey
Theres a guy I've like and he likes me.But he has a g/f of three years. We plan on hooking up. I'll hook up with him if he wants to hook up with me, I dont care what anyone says. Im not a whore, slut or anything, I really like him and we have crazy chemistry. So far we havent done anything together, just a little touching.
But I'd like to know what a girl would feel like if her b/f cheated on her. He invited me over but im still contemplaiting,what do you think?
Theres a guy I've like and he likes me.But he has a g/f of three years. We plan on hooking up. I'll hook up with him if he wants to hook up with me, I dont care what anyone says. Im not a whore, slut or anything, I really like him and we have crazy chemistry. So far we havent done anything together, just a little touching.
But I'd like to know what a girl would feel like if her b/f cheated on her. He invited me over but im still contemplaiting,what do you think?
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How would you like to find out your boyfriend that you have loved for 3 years cheated on you with some random - what she would think - whore?
Not nice
He needs to break up with her first.
Dont be the "other woman". Youre doing yourself an injustice if you are, and it will never be any good.
If he cares about you, he would split up with his gf, and if he cared about her, he wouldnt be flirting with you.
It sounds to me like he just wants his end away with two girls and youd be a fool to go along with it.
:yes: Be honest - would you like it if you were her and found out something like this? I somehow doubt it.
Clearly not.
It hurts like a bitch. Don't be so fucking selfish. At least get him to break up with her first.
clearly you don't mind being used by him.
would you like it if it was the other way around? doubt it.
okay so i've done it myself but i shouldn't have and it was 2 years ago.
I cant see there being a relationship because if he cheats on her why wouldn't he cheat on you.
It may sound hard but dont hook up with him, how would you feel?
Karma my friend.
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This may be just a shag or two for you, but it'd be devastating for his gf. And if you want it to be more than that anyway, you should ask him to break up with her. This guy just seems to want the best of both worlds, and you shouldn't give it to him that easily. Have some more respect for both his girlfriend, and for yourself!
If I were his gf and I found out he'd been cheating - I'd be on the warpath for the both of you. Don't do it. Plain and simple.
Yes my kind of reaction. Would be tempted to hit someone who asked me that q. in real life, saying 'I dont really mind, just a bit of touching so far'. But then again I'm in the 'been cheated on' club.
You're a whore if you intend on doing this. That's all.
It seems worse to me that he is ´arranging´to cheat on her, worse than if he just got carried away with someone in the heat of the moment.
Either youre not into him THAT much, because you dont want a relationship, in which case its COMPLETELY selfish to even consider "doing him", or you have no confidence in your worth that a man shouldnt be with you to the exclusion of others.
In one way, no. What would you do if his girlfriend found out what you were doing with her boyfriend? Put yourself in her position...
It would be better if you two stopped seeing each other and you got a boyfriend who doesn't already have a girlfriend...
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Mean but true.
And watch out for his gf finding out, she might be hard as fuck and a woman scorned....