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and I know why ive never been without a bf for more than a few weeks :impissed:
I think a lot of men aim extremely high in the pursuit of women; a little too high in some cases... but god knows [almost] everyone loves a trier.
Well yeah cos it means she has a gorgeous bf
I thank my lucky stars every day.
When 2 people are as attractive as each other, there's a lot of competition.
:thumb:
Its got nothing to do with being easy, sexually. More to do with being easy to get along with.
:yes: Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't being 'attractive' much more than looks?
That is bang on the mark, imo :thumb:
Yeah, is a bit. And it's probably not true either...
Define unattractive though. You can't. One man's meat is another man's poison, after all.
I don't think I'm that pretty. I have pretty features sometimes, but I'm on the big side.
My boyfriend, when we first met, thought I was gorgeous, and last night, as we lay in bed, I grabbed my stomach and went "yuck".
He took my hand away and looked into my eyes and said "1) I love you no matter what. and 2) I don't mind. You are beautiful."
Aww
But one of my - well she is kinda my friend, but I dont like her, so we'll just say acquientence - is quite pretty. But because she's such a bitch, she can;t hold down a boyfriend for very long, and a lot of guys who know her for her, think she is ugly.
Beauty comes from the inside right? But it cant all be about inside beauty. Personality can only take you so far, as can beauty. Its a balance thing.
For me its the simple reason that 'uglier' girls generally have better personalities i.e. have a good sense of humour, arent stuck up and just easier and more fun to talk to. Also i can act more myself round an 'uglier' girl such as joke around more as its not such a big deal if i loose her. Where as with a fit girl you're shiteing your pants hoping you don't make a fool of yourself cos shes so much hotter. Also yeah i think its prolly a state of mind thing, like there's less chance she'll be cheating on you and you don't worry bout her cheating on you so much.