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my mum stopping me
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my mum is stopping me seeing my byfrnd after 7 weeks of us going out cause she read in the paper about his convictions of forging cheques and been in jail and she stopping me going out at weekends after someone told her i had been having sex with my lst byfrnd and having one night stands other things. is there anything i can do to convict her to let me see my byfrnd so i wont have to go behind her back to see him:banghead:
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He sounds a true upstanding member of the community. :rolleyes:
tbh, if you were the parent in this situation - would you be happy?
If he truly is an angel now...then get him to come over one day so your mum can actually meet him properly so she can see for herself.
sounds like a complete arse. criminals dont usually make good boyfriends, and i certainly wouldnt trust someone who had done bird for fraud! ha
your mum only cares, you'll thank her in the long run
I don't blame your mum.
When I was your age, my mum disapproved of my boyfriend cause he had dyed hair. If he had been an ex-con I imagine she would have locked me in my room until I was 25.
:yes: I don't thinks there's actually anything you can really do to make your mum change her mind. Has she actually met him yet or not?
both of my parents met him and got on well wit him though mum did think he was a bit of a lay-about coz he had no job.
he stopped during shit thou and he does really care for me and i do for him. im may be only 17 but im not stupid and i know who i want and its him
so he's a criminal with no job as well?
certainly a nice character then.
how old is he?
sorry this is all prob not want you want to hear but its the truth.
I wonderif her mum actually knows about this?
Listen to your mum, she's been around a lot longer than you have and has your best interests at heart, it'll only cause a rift between everyone and you'll end up getting hurt more. What mother and father would want their child being in a relationship with a bum that has been in nick?
How do you know that?
Plenty of people with criminal records have jobs.
I am going to quote fiend_85 here:
It may be patronizing but it's true.
Totally agreed. Be honest - if you were your mum, would you let a chld go out with someone like your boyfriend? I seriously doubt it...
His a loser.
Why should she trust you?
Your just showing how immature you are there, no wonder she doesn't trust you. tbh, your naive.
No, because, unfortunately, you are acting immature. Calling your mum a "smelly old cow" won't get people thinking that you are mature, sensible and have good judgement. It will cause people to think you are young, immature and naive.
Try seeing things from your mum's point of view for just one second. See her logic.
you're just being immature now...you can't even write in english - grow up please