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i hope to god my contraception never fails!
That's got nothing to do with us lot.
What are people not allowed to make a joke now? Lighten up girl, you'll need to if you're going to survive being a mum.
Obviously I'm not going to be buying him more airsoft stuff...that was before I found out so that's irrelevant. The matress on the floor was because our bed broke and we saw no point in buying a new one so close to moving flat. We're going to get a new one once we've bought the new flat.
As your-babe says our finances are not really any of your business but we'll manage. People worse off than us with no support manage so why can't we?!
and fiend...actually I'm almost 22 and a hell of a lot older than most people having kids these days. We know the facts, part of my degree was children's mental and physical development and we have people that wont bicker or bitch about our age and situation to support us.
See Mist's post...
as long as you can support/bring it up right then everythings hunky dory
I'm sorry if I took some of the things that WERE meant as jokes to heart but I'm a bit...well...shocked at the moment. It's going to take a while to get used to.
Thanks again everybody
exactly
WE will deffinately not scrounge of the goverment concidering I think it's sick how many people do that at the moment,
Hellfire
Lolzabeth - I've paid my taxes for as long as I've been working. Aren't I entitled to a bit of help? Isn't that what I pay them for in the first place?
I'm going to be working for as long as I can and will be going back as soon as I can afterwards. And yes fiend, we know not all support is financial but we have a brilliant lot of friends and family that will help us out when we need it. This baby is going to be INCREDIBLY loved and spoilt lol
Haha, anyway. Congrats and good luck you two.
I have to agree with everything said above. Congratulations to both of you, I really do wish you all the best. Just dont take the nasty comments to heart, only you can decide whether to have a child or not, and its not anyone else business to put you down because of it.
Why did you pick a child to be the father of your baby? This is fuckin hilarious!
Can understand why parents would want to give their child/children all they could though
I love that "child" you talk about and I'm not scared to admit it. Who cares about age anyway these days? Aslong as both people are consenting then what's the problem? I would rather have a baby with Hellfire than half of the "men" I meet twice his age, or my age in fact, which is only 3 years older. What's that when we're 30 and 33? nothing. I'm happy, he's happy, be happy for us please
oh, and balleriina, I meant in the sense it will get spoilt in the loved sense not the 5000000 toys so you can't move in the house kind of spoilt
To me it's nothing more than a number. And it's not like he's under 16 or anything like that...
I'll be happy for you
:yes: And Lolzabeth - I'm happy for you & Hellfire and hope everything goes alright.