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This is my first post so apologies if this is a repeat of anything posted before. :cool:
Just wondering if anyone here is a virgin, cos im an 18 year old girl and cos im so shy it may not happen for quite a while yet, im not in any particular rush and want to wait for the right guy.
Is there something wrong with me?
Just wondering if anyone here is a virgin, cos im an 18 year old girl and cos im so shy it may not happen for quite a while yet, im not in any particular rush and want to wait for the right guy.
Is there something wrong with me?
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There's nothing wrong with that at all - why would there be?
I agree, nothing wrong with waiting, sometimes waiting for the right one is better than sleeping with someone you will always regret...
This is what I plan on doing.
Just guessing here, as I'm still a virgin. You shouldn't feel pressured to do anything early, wait until your ready. Thats what I'm doing, waiting till I'm with the right person and it feels right. So, there isn't anything wrong with you!
Good plan :yes:
No there is nothing wrong with you at all.
I agree with what everyone else has said
Once you meet someone you care about it will all just feel natural :yes:
Yes, all virgins die before they reach 20.
Nice one man :thumb:
Wow, dude, that only gives you, like, 6 or 7 months to live ....
I know :nervous:
I lost my v plates shortly after I was 16. My boyfriend was 20 at the time. He put alot of pressure on me for sex. I only regretted it afterwards. I wish I had waited.
Turns out, this guy was a loser. We split up shortly afterwards.
there's nothing wrong with waiting. i'm 22 n i was seeing a guy who's 18 n he was okay with it....well kinda...but yeah,wait for the right guy..n the right time..it's your body so you get to decide no matter what other people might say!
I've just been unfortunate. My first bf was forceful about it, and hit me when I refused. So that kinda put me off it for a while. I don't think I wanted it with my second bf. I could have done it a hundred times with my last bf, but we never got a safe time alone to do it.
So there.
I'm desperate to do it with the guy I'm seeing now. But it has to be right, because otherwise it'd kill me emotionally.
Oh, and I'm 19 in July by the by.
I'm a virgin. Problem is I'm not shy or timid. I don't hang back. I'm out there and doing things, interacting and what not. So in this case, I believe there might be something inherently wrong with me that I'm apparently not aware of.
Good luck I wanted that too. But didn't work out. Now I figure as long as I marry my 1st then it'll be okay
Thanks I am a determined person, and for me there hasn't ever even been any kind of temptation. If I commit to something, then that's it. I'm confident I'll carry it through
Well again I say good luck but I must admit I never had any desire to have sex and or touch myself AT ALL but things change. And honestly I love my boyfriend and can't wait to get married and I'am very please with the choice I've made thought it was diffcult.. I hope your happy with whatever choice you make
Thanks dudette, it's a nice change from people laughing I must admit Touching yourself is grand, it;s a great form of release, and you're not hurting anyone in the process, or putting yourself at risk of STI's. Good luck with your marriage!!
I didn't realise there were so many peolple who were happy to wait.
Thanks everyone
But not having been kissed does bother me a lot.