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That's terrible. Glad you got past it.
Thank you. It took a while, but I did it. The emotional scars keep popping their ugly heads up every so often to haunt me. But ya know, it's all good.
If he hadnt of been moving away i would have waited a little bit later till i had sex with him. But yeah good for you! i have many friends doing this and were all 16/17 so your not alone.
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The first time is always terrible so its never gonna be 'perfect' just wait for the right person, probably the best thing ya can do.
My experience was really bad n wished i waited, wrong person, wrong time etc
Good luck for me, huh?
im 16 and a virgin, dont let people pressure you into doing it,
cos one day your look back and regret it.
why an earth do you not think your normal!?
waiting for the right person is even more normal than shagging
the first thing with a pulse.
i mean look at lisa kudrow, she was 32 when she done it.
hope i've helped. tinkz xxxx
xxxx
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Nothing wrong with waiting at all; just as there's nothing wrong with not waiting. Whether or not you've had sex is no reflection on weirdness, I know a bunch of crazy-weird nymphos.
It's hard sometimes, when you're feeling all single and lonely and the only thing you want is a good shag, but then, you remember that you're your own person and it's you own choice.
I can respect girls much more, when they wait instead of giving in to a pushy disrespectful boyfriend. If you're not strong enough to say no, you certainly shouldn't be forced to say yes.
Wicca Man during spring to ensure good crops for the summer?
I was like "so what, she's 19"
He was like "yeah and she acts like she knows it all and flirts"
So because she has never slept with anybody means she's not allowed to flirt? Because she has not had sex means she has no life experience?
I don't see how you can claim to respect a person if you can't respect their choices, especially choices about their intimacy.
Well said! :thumb:
why thank you! I truly take that as a compliment
It is, there is more in a relationship than sex... Love is what matter... Sex is just a beatufil addition...