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Longest relationships?
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whats everyones longest relationships and how did they get together.
i can honestly say i've never had a long relationship and we're talking 2/3 weeks max.
i can honestly say i've never had a long relationship and we're talking 2/3 weeks max.
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It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
got together at a club which was celebrating christmas.
still going strong.
[This message has been edited by CHEEKy (edited 03-03-2001).]
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
We met in the school orchestra...
And to think I nearly gave up the violin when I left the juniors!!
I'm the type who doesn't like to commit to things unless I'm completely sure, and I get bored easily. Relationships are a lot of work, and I guess I don't like being in one that I know won't last forever, or continue to grow.
I don't think that the length of relationships means much. Maybe it sounds like I don't have much experience, that nobody is interested in me, or that I'm difficult to get along with.
I just see myself as someone with high standards who won't waste time and energy until someone really special comes along. When that happens, I hope that it will last forever.
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For me maybe 6months at the most! But my friend Sweetkiss(ex-member) shes been with her boyfriend for....1yr 3months so far! They met....through me,cause for a while i was with her boyfriend but i knew they liked each other so i gave up and gave them too each other and since that they've been together! She moved down too Cambridge to be with him though, so i dont see her that much, only talk too her now and again! If anyone remembers her and wants to e-mail her just let me know and ill give you her address!
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I agree.Its the strength.OK I know that to last a long time it must have been a strong thing but there are some who constantly drag it on and on just for the sake of having someone.But people who are in the relationship know best whether its strong or not,despite the length.
The outsiders wont know what their relationship is like.It can be a strong one but it can be short.
Its possible to have a long and stupid weak one.
I had a one month relationship and comparing it with my friend's longer one mine was stronger-her's-it was daft,they never spoke,never saw each other.They only pashed with each other only when they felt they had to when in friends company.
Anyway,thats all I had to say.
Bye for now.
Met on a bus, big coincidence, because I was in town. We went to a club but my mate got kicked out and I went with him. So i got the bus home and my friend and her friend got on. I started talking to her friend Lx and we hit it off.
2 weeks later we were together. That was 6 months ago!
So for al those who dont believe, there is such a thing as fate, or massive coincidence.
we met in a carpark, him and his friends was parked there and my friend wanted to go with one of the drivers...so i was stuck with the passenger. happy enough...
we went to the park and it was such a clear nite u can see all the stars...it was a real good nite...
but now...we're not even speaking...unbelievable huh??
children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
iv been wiv jo for 1 yr and 4days!!!!!!! its been gr8 we met through my cousinhe met her on the net and one nite he was on the phone wiv her and well i did something i shunt have done i gave her my number. and me and him have never spoken since all i can say its been worth it i got rid of him and got the girl of my dreams well who wunt av done that?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
Cos i'm thinking about a brand new hope, one i've never known, and where it goes, cos now I know it's all that wanted.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
mine lasted 1 1/2 years, i got drunk and the whole relationship was a mistake! lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
so please Jamie, get your own account
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
You went out just for something to do?!? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"> lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
I mean, my longest boyfriend before him was 2 months!!!! How was i to know we'd end up engaged with a mortgage!!!! It wasn't all bad and i would do it again...but just differently.
If the sky that we look upon
should tumble and fall
or the mountains should crumble in the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry,
No, I won't shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me
As another point, this maybe a bit personal but how long have most people been with a b/f or g/f before sleeping together?
I was with my b/f for 3 months before hand. Looking back now I probably would have waited but I don't regret it( apart from the part when my mum found out!!!!) Can win everything!
Love jane <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
10 months (would have been 5 if there werent... complications...) and erm.... 2 days! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"> hehehehe
and weve had this question before, ill just go and find it for you!
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees