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wondering
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Do you guys ever wonder what the person your having sex with is thinking???
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eh?
what you mean?
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During sex my boyfriend will tell me what he is thinking like how it feels, what he wants, or how my body looks to him and since it is all sexually and very postive it is a turn on... is that odd?
ohh i like it when a lad does that too and i'll tell them too.
same here but this lad is not giving nothing away, you reckon i should ask him? Dont wanna kill the mood tho
sauce xx
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You don't have to kill the mood. Just while your in bed you could say in a very 'sexy' voice " baby talk to me, tell me how I feel" some guys like when you talk between moans...
Really??? might give it a go thanx
sauce xx
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what wrong with that like?
sauce xx
that better??
Same here. As long as they don't say a different name, its all good.
Though, I honestly dont' think I think of anything during sex. My mind just like blanks out... I don't think of the person I'm doing. Or anybody else, or even whats on tv or what I want to eat. Just nothing.
So I really hope nobody ever asks that question.
I would feel so stupid saying that. I just can't say "baby" in that context without laughing.
I laugh so much during sex, I just get in that mood sometimes when everything is funny to me. Sometimes I don't laugh though
Unlike my_name I think about all sorts, like how cute he looks from that angle of how lovely his smile is. I'm usually thinking about whether he is enjoying himself and wondering what he is thinking.
I'm the same (not really the laughing)
I usually think how cute he looks, how good it is... or "ew, I dont like those facials" "should my eyes be open?" "should I call out his name, or will that sound silly?" "shit, what if the neighbours/parents hear me/the bed"
I was sick a couple of weeks ago, and everytime I coughed during sex, it went real tight down there. It apparantly felt weird, like squashing it.