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its all about individual taste, and if you have a good personality that will shine through, but as MoonRat said, being desperate is a serious turn off, as the lass wont feel special in the slightest!
But on to the point of you, Tugger, saying you're, lets say, slightly below average on the scale of good looks...there are so many things you can do to change this. A new haircut, trendy clothes, a facial skin routine. One of my exes is so vain, and thats how he pulls, he is attractive, but he wouldnt be anywhere near as nice if he didnt put all the effort in that he does.
if you want to moan or become my little project for the summer to turn you into Orlando Bloom just PM me.
Aww, aren't you a sweetheart!
In terms of the question (which I actually think has been done twice fairly recently) looks are by no means the only factor when it comes to fancying someone; but they are pretty important in most circumstances.
I could not go out with a good looking guy who had no personality yet I could go out with a less good looking guy with a brilliant personality. I've found that I'm attracted to guys with a really good personality. However, there needs to be some sort of physical attraction because otherwise I couldn't see myself doing anything with them.
Ooh, can you turn me into Orlando Bloom too?
Why would any sane man want to look like Orlando Bloom?
He looks like a pussy :razz:
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Yes, looks are important. But they aren't the be all and end all. Try looking a little deeper into why you can't get someone, I'd go for confidence issues if I had to take a stab at it.
I'm not especially good looking and I think I would feel insecure going out with a really gorgeous bloke. I also find they are often up themselves and more likely to go off with someone else.
I'd rather have someone normal looking, with the same sense of humour as me.
Not a 100% fitting analogy, but I think my point is obvious.
it's nature, isn't it? our bodies show us the person who'll most sucessfully reproduce with us as a total fittie.