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Hi,
I found out last week that I am pregnant. I didn't have a clue, and I felt it would be to just reassure myself. So, now I know what I need to do, and I cannot have a baby as I have no home or job and could not support it in the way it would need to be supported. I cannot look after myself etc.
Anyway, I have sort of managed to come to terms with that, however I may not be saying that when I have the abortion.
My main query is how to stop feeling so bad in myself? I mean, I am constantly nauseaus and tired. Its making me ever so moody, something needs to be done.
Please any tips?
Thank you
I found out last week that I am pregnant. I didn't have a clue, and I felt it would be to just reassure myself. So, now I know what I need to do, and I cannot have a baby as I have no home or job and could not support it in the way it would need to be supported. I cannot look after myself etc.
Anyway, I have sort of managed to come to terms with that, however I may not be saying that when I have the abortion.
My main query is how to stop feeling so bad in myself? I mean, I am constantly nauseaus and tired. Its making me ever so moody, something needs to be done.
Please any tips?
Thank you
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Sorry to hear you're in a stressful situation at the moment. I'm not sure if you're a livejournal user at all, but there's an excellent community which provides info to women seeking abortion. There's an extensive memories section and it has a lot of information regarding medical abortion and dealing with morning sickness etc.
A lot of women in early pregnancy find that ginger can help to ease nausea. So can fresh peach and pear juice.
Ginger's good yep, and milky drinks. Fruit juice can make reflux or heartburn worse, but that probably isn't a problem for you at this stage. Make sure you're drinking enough and eating well when you're not feeling sickly.
Good luck at the hospital.
those travel sickness wristbands too.
As for the tiredness, Theres nothing you can do. I know its awful - that tired to the bone feeling. You just need to rest where you can, get early nights, maybe an extra coffee - youll probably find that doesnt do anything though. That extreme lethargy is one of the worst things about early pregnancy imo.
well its me, there was someone who i didnt want to upset by posting this in my real name (and i had to post something coz it was driving me mad), but it got to a point where he needed to be told. im sorry for being deceitful, but i hope you understand why i did it. only 3 people in real life know coz i am quite ashamed of myself, but i like my little family that i have here, and i know you will understand.
I'm sorry for lying, and i hope you understand why i have done it, and i have told you now coz i absolutely detest lying! Im sure a few of you clicked after i didnt respond to the previous thread i did about feeling a bit shit. my housemate bought me a test as soon as i had read that, and it was (obviously) positive.
I want to thank everyone who posted, as without you i probably would be in my own world of denial in which the consequences would have become worse!
Anyways back to the point in hand, thanks Abbie, i will go down and buy asda out of ginger! as long as the sickness goes i think i can handle the tiredness. and i have finished my finals now, so i can sleep as much as i like!
Everyone understands that anonymousness is important sometimes, so it's all good! As you say, we're all family here :yes:
Hope everything's going okay!
Hope you're feeling OK hun. If I can find a creme egg anywhere, I'll send you one
:yes:
I have posted in another name before too, even though none of you really know me anyway.
Good luck with everything Bunny! I'm sending hugs
oh and nicki, im thinking maybe you should try looking a bit harder!! lol! but if all else fails you know normal dairy milk is good enough!!
xxx
thank you!!
thats what i worry about the most, is how i will be afterwards...will you all come pick up the little pieces please? oh and give me lots of hugs!
Hugs and support are on tap 'round here. On a personal note, I can really empathise with a lot of the feelings you must be experiencing at the moment, and no one would fault you for worrying or being unsure of the entire situation. If you want to talk about it, I'm only a PM away
Oh, and I hope the nauseated feeling goes away soon, a lot of good suggestions and tips here... though you might find yourself turning into a ginger root soon enough. If you're done with the ginger cake then I'll give it a good home