If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
Essential support for under 25s
Essential support for under 25s
Take a look around and enjoy reading the discussions. If you'd like to join in, it's really easy to register and then you'll be able to post. If you'd like to learn what this place is all about, head here.
Comments
It is constantly trotted out that kids do bad things because they 'have nothing else to do' but do they really have less to do than other kids who don't get into trouble? Or kids in times gone by (rather the opposite I would have thought).
Rather I think it is beacsue they are bought up in such a way so that they don't enjoy and have no interest in the other things there are to do, which is rather different........
sterilize her, and make sure her genes do not spread and dilye the goodness we have left in our council estates
They don't need yet more education. Most of us get enough sex education and it's perfectly simple to understand that in order to prevent pregnancy you wear a condom, take the pill etc.
It isn't rocket science.
Furthermore, if you happen to be having sex while drunk, not putting a condom on then I have no sympathy with you either.
Many girls simply have a baby because it is the easiest option in life. It is what happens around many areas including mine. Girls have children to prevent them selves entering the real world. This is due to bad parenting; however, parents can't be completely blamed.
The benefit system doesn't help either.
Getting pregnant at such a young age should be discouraged so much. This can be helped by giving it an negative image from the start... i.e. school and from parents and society should look down on it. The government can help too by making benefits as limited as possible.
These measures would make them think again!
i keep on hearing similar things like that being bandied about the place
i thnk its a load of dogshite, girls like the one in question/discussion about, get pregnant because they fuck when drunk and without protection, if they really wanted to consciously make a decision about avoiding the real world, they'd have sober sex
and being totally truthful here, the biggest shock and easiest way into the real world, is by having a baby
They have babies at young ages, then their children do... it's a cycle.
The current system doesn’t do anything to stop this as I believe it’s unhealthy.
:yes:
Then you have NO IDEA how hard it is bringing up a child.
Yeah it really easy :rolleyes:
The cycle needs to be broken down by society giving teenagers who have kids the thumbs down, not all the help in the world etc., make it so hard it puts off the next generation.
Ambition is the best contraceptive :yes:
This country got a lot of work to do then...
what you suggest is just fighting the symptoms, we still need to fight the cause, basic prevention is better than a cure for current problems, and i think it can be solved quicker and easier
and in the past people have a habit of sticking two fingers up to any kind of suggestions that make it harder for them
Yes, but I still prefer this country tbh... to start with in France you can have sex and leave home when you are 18 and not 16 like here... and I think the morals are not the same either... but France is mpore racist and more close minded than here tho... I always find that a combo of both country would make a nice one... but well, I don't believe any country is perfect in all aspect...
I know a girl now whos 16 and wants a baby.
If they have no role models with careers, then what would make them want any different for themselves?
thats the one and only single thing i dont like about france in general
ahlf the people are so open minded and cool about everything and anything, the other half are the most closed minded and racist people i have ever met, and more than enough make up for the nice half
no offence intended towards you NMM
No offense taken man, I know that, that's why I am not keen on going back there... you can cut the rascism tension with a knife is plenty of place in France...
france has a problem like anywhere else in working out who resides in their nation
lets not forget hey have more generous benefits than us to sponge off
the reason this country has people coming here, is because we spread word of our 'freedom' (whatever that is when you can be guilty without trial now) and we have jobs in this country which natives dont want - this means we get a mix of people escaping persecution and those seeking work
asylum seekers (the group escaping persecution in the process of finding out whether their claims are true) aren't allowed to work legally, so you'd wonder why they're called spongers...... and if they found work they's be called criminals, frankly id rather be a sponger than a criminal