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girl who got pregnant at 11
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i heard it this morning too, she was drunk and smokes 20 a day. She says she thinks she ready because she's had 'loads' of practice looking after kids.
The boy is 15 and is being charged with rape.
Pregnant at 11!!?? That's just shocking.
i heard it this morning too, she was drunk and smokes 20 a day. She says she thinks she ready because she's had 'loads' of practice looking after kids.
The boy is 15 and is being charged with rape.
Pregnant at 11!!?? That's just shocking.
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IIRC, when I was ins econdary school, there was some sort of option to have a 'doll' which acts like a baby - cries, needs to be fed, sleeps, etc.
She means she's used to sleepless night and the like? I seriously doubt it... :rolleyes:
:yes: Wise words, couldn't have said it better myself.
It seems that way, But it wasn't like the parents forced their children to have sex is it? Obviously, the other way to look at it is that it is the parents fault because if she was educated well enough (could partly be school's fault I guess) on sex then she wouldn't have a baby now.
Me and my mate were discussing it at work and saying if it was us, our parents would have hit the fucking roof and never come back down.
out of all the couples in my parents' circle of friends, only my parents were able to have kids. all their others friends tried for years without sucess, had IVF, and nowt happened. it tore them all apart. and some stupid wee school dropout drinking hooer is about to bring a life into the world. it really beggars belief.
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Totally agree!
My parents would probably react in exactly the same way as yours.
I'm slightly confused though:
This topic was made on another board I post on and someone mentioned rape. He said something about how the boy would be charged with rape. But why would he be charged with rape? He didn't exactly (by the sounds of it) force her to sleep with him, did he?
As for the smoking thing, loads of pregnant women smoke (personally I disagree with that completely and think its pretty selfish) I don't think her age is really the issue with that.
Dont see what the debate is. I dont think anyones gonna say having babies at 12 is a fab idea.
It would be rape because even if she wanted it its not seen as consent since she's a child.
Not nessesarily (sp?) she still could have done it. I went to school with a girl who got pregnant on purpose at 15.
shitty council estate schools.
So much more intelligent than my answer!
What if you have sex with an eleven year old,and you are 9 years old ?
I dunno if you can blame the schools. I blame the parents. In this case, anyway. Clearly her parents were paying for her drinking and smoking at 11 years old, it's not like she could even have a paper round. Unless she's stealing the money... and then, well, she has no morals and you learn morals from your parents.
So yeah, I blame the parents.
Agreed. You can't exactly expect school to teach s kid everything they need to know, can you?
then probably your parents would slap you but no charges would be brought.
In that case maybe but not in all cases, and sometimes early sexual precociousness is a symptom of earlier child abuse, sometimes the parents, sometimes not. Sometimes it can be because they didnt get enough attention. Sometimes it could be because they desperatly feel they need something to love. Sometimes it might be because of the parents, but not necessarily the parents fault, ie with my friend whos mother was schizophrenic - it was very difficult for her to give her daughter much stability.