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lost, lost, lost....
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i am talking to this guy. we have been seeing eachother for 2 years now. when we first got together, he said that he knew we'd never be together forever. he's not so sure about that now. he was my boyfriend, i was his girlfriend. in february, he dropped a bomb on me and it totally broke my heart. he broke up with me. but here's the thing. he still wants me to come to his house, spend time with his family, etc. everything that we did before. the only difference would be that i wouldn't have the right to tell him i didn't want him going out. why do i have such a problem with him going out? he never takes me out with him , he goes out with other GIRLS (he doesn't do anything with them and i'm pretty sure about it, but i know they like him), he's taken me out only a few times in the 2 years we've been together, and he leaves me at his house and doesn't come back till 3-4 in the morning.there was an incident where this psycho girl told me that he tried to mess with her. but her and her friend have a rep for attempting and being successful at lying to guys' g/f's to make them jealous/think negatively. he broke up with me and said that he'd get back with me when he was ready to stop going out. sometimes, i love him. sometimes, i hate him. what to do?
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Try and stand up for yourself, tell him either he's with you or he's not. I personally would tell him to get lost, but its your call.
Good luck
xxxxxxx
Brian
Think about yourself and what you want because he's doing what he wants to do. I know you love him but it's a big world out there!!
Good Luck
But then we all need some pain, just so we know!
also, the best way to sort these things out is to sit down and have a BIG talk. ask him how he feels, and he might just tell you! Dont let him bullshit you, cos it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, and i bet he wants you! But parties also, as well, alongside!
On the other hand, does he not enjoy your comapany in ALL situations? i mean, isn't he your boyfriend, for a while? you guys should go and have fun together, and fun AS WELl with your own mates, uno, cos you both like different things.
And, sorry, but fuck sitting at home with my boyfriends parents! go out yourself! i bet it will be different then, he will know how you feel, even if it is just with your girlfriends. They are the best therapy you know!
be strong, be the one who decides what happens in your life.