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Agree with your point but I think a lot of non-white people consider the term coloured derogatory
It's just something that wouldn't feel right to me.
I do have lots of gay and bi friends though.
(oh and an ex of mine is now gay....lol I didn't know that when I was with him!)
Whatever.
At least my assumption appears to be correct.
Ilora x
Considering the fact that a few others have replied with answers not vastly different from my own, your assumption actually seems to be based on yourself putting two and two together and making 37. To produce such an assumption seems rather unusual, given that you know little about me. Would you care to highlight the basis of your assumption?
We grow fur and fangs on a full moon don'tcha know.
As for the whole bisexual issue, I think it's a lot to do with trust issues that a person might have, or of course the demonisation of bisexual people by the gay scene. It can be annoying because they heteros won't accept ya and either will the homos...
I don't even really see myself as 'bisexual' and I am very quiet abot it. To me what matters is that I am loyal and sincere towards whoever catches my eye, be it male or female (I would say my male:female ratio is around 30:70). I am not a cheater, I do not mess people around or play them...
It is just unfortunate that I may never have a girlfriend because of my sexuality not being all the way gay and because so many people judge... Shame, for all they know I could be a nice catch.
Totally agree with you MoonRat. I am not out there and brash about it, but if I see someone who I like, I will go for it in a more subtle way. My male:female ratio would be about 60:40.
It wouldn't bother me at all, might knock whatever ego I have left because I'd feel lie me missing a penis was what was wrong... But generally I'd feel hurt purely for the fact that I trusted them with intimacy.
I agree cheating is cheating, no matter which gender they cheat on you it will still hurt like hell... also i know some blokes that think that if their girl were cheating on them with an other girl it wouldn't be so bad... but it's not like they know by experience...
I agree with you there, and no offense taken at all... they might be my mates, but it doesn't mean I agree or respect everything they say... one of them can even get paranoid and get fucking upset if he think his girl is cheating on him, when he cheated on her often and sometimes even with prostitutes... and they are party mates, they are not friends... there is a difference between the two for me...
I went out with a couple of bisexual girls, with one of them about for 4 months, with the other for a week.
In both cases, the best thing is that we would both talk about how nice "that girl's" ass was!! :yes:
That is actually a problem I've had... I'm not "gay enough" for some women and they say how a 'bi girl' will reel then really have a boyfriend/go back to men after the relationship is over. I would never date a biphobic woman just because it is no difference to homophobia and racism and also they might have trust issues.
Sorry... Just a rant.
Totally see your point! I probably should have told her to mind her own business! Ah well next time. Think she went off me as soon as she realised Im bi.
Bt woteva got no problem wit it.
If anyone has any suggestions for how to raise awareness of bi issues within the LGBT do please PM me!
I was seeing a bloke who was bisexual, it made no difference to me.
I would say at the moment my m/f ratio is 30:70, but it varies between 50:50, 90:10, 10:90, just depends really.
Of course. The person is no more likely to go off with the same sex as they will with someone of the opposite sex ... it just depends on who they are in love with at the time.