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Sending a text to the wrong person.cringe
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I went out drinking with a friend last night who has had a fling with a male friend of mine. when we were drunk she ended up taking my phone off me and ringing male friend up, where it was general embarrassing drunk talk. she then started taking pics on her phone of guys in the bar we were in and sending them to male friend.
this morning i texted male friends saying sorry for what happened last night, i think girl friend still has feelings for you, after she spoke to you she was chatting everyone up which is where the pics come from.
except of course i sent it to my female friend by accident :banghead: .i feel so awful, just sick to my stomach.i found out by looking in my outbox and when i read the message now i feel awful about what i sent.shes working tonight so ive sent her a text saying im really sorry. shes got some important family stuff happening over the next day or two so im thinking of leaving things til then and ringing her on tuesday,when things are less raw.
any other advice?
this morning i texted male friends saying sorry for what happened last night, i think girl friend still has feelings for you, after she spoke to you she was chatting everyone up which is where the pics come from.
except of course i sent it to my female friend by accident :banghead: .i feel so awful, just sick to my stomach.i found out by looking in my outbox and when i read the message now i feel awful about what i sent.shes working tonight so ive sent her a text saying im really sorry. shes got some important family stuff happening over the next day or two so im thinking of leaving things til then and ringing her on tuesday,when things are less raw.
any other advice?
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also saying she tried to chat 'everyone' up, reading it back just sounds so harsh when we've all got a bit flirty when we're drunk but dont necessarily want other people who weren't there to know about it.
i supposed i was embarrassed by her but doesnt justify what i said.and i can only imagine how upsetting it must have been for her to read.
serves her right for being a knob and sending him photos of guys, weirdo.
yeah i know, much as im not looking forward to talking to her i know i have to bite the bullet.
i really dont know hows shes going to react, i think if the situations were reversed id probably feel embarrassed about how id behaved on the night but really wished my friend hadnt spoken to someone else about it.
i think i was subconsciously a bit annoyed with her from the night before- as well as the phone call she also blabbed something to my boyfriend that i'd confided in her earlier in the evening which caused an argument.i just wish id reacted with a bit more dignity and not sent that stupid text!
Luckily as I didn't use any names I managed to blag that it was like a weird joke and used it to initiate foreplay, result :thumb: