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Why do I bother?
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One of my "friends" is really starting to get on my fucking tits!
I've picked up work for her from uni, taken notes for her when she couldn't be assed coming in, helped her when she was stuck, sent her emails with questions and my work that she could look at and gone round to her house to help her or study because she "can't be assed getting two buses to come to paisley" so I have to get two buses to get to hers!
She said she'd help me with my law exam (she'd done the exam the year before) but when it can to it she "couldn't be bothered" and said she'd done it herself so I had to aswell. I failed it...
I just asked her there if she could type out a question i'd lost for an essay. She said "nope. i can't be assed. You live round the corner from the uni."
I found the sheet. You wanna see the question...
"discuss briefly how the respective components of propellants may be employed in a forensic investigation to determine the nature and sourse of this type of energetic material."
Not even 3 lines?!?!?!
AAAAARGH!!! Why do I feel I'm being taken advantage of?!?!?!
Now I'm getting whinged at for going in a mood with her. I'm not even in a mood. I'm just fed up
/rant
I've picked up work for her from uni, taken notes for her when she couldn't be assed coming in, helped her when she was stuck, sent her emails with questions and my work that she could look at and gone round to her house to help her or study because she "can't be assed getting two buses to come to paisley" so I have to get two buses to get to hers!
She said she'd help me with my law exam (she'd done the exam the year before) but when it can to it she "couldn't be bothered" and said she'd done it herself so I had to aswell. I failed it...
I just asked her there if she could type out a question i'd lost for an essay. She said "nope. i can't be assed. You live round the corner from the uni."
I found the sheet. You wanna see the question...
"discuss briefly how the respective components of propellants may be employed in a forensic investigation to determine the nature and sourse of this type of energetic material."
Not even 3 lines?!?!?!
AAAAARGH!!! Why do I feel I'm being taken advantage of?!?!?!
Now I'm getting whinged at for going in a mood with her. I'm not even in a mood. I'm just fed up
/rant
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Treat her the same back.Give her some of her own medicine.
Its the only thing that works on users.Because thats all she sounds to be.
TBH though, you probably should have been able to pass that exam on your own.
I know. I thought I had but I obviously suck at law more than even I thought I did
All I wanted was a couple of pointers towards what they were looking for. It wasn't like I was asking her to do the exam for me.
easy as pie.
times, i asked her the same favour and what did i get, 'cant sorry' basically. Needless to say, i stopped and yes she got in a mood with me over it, but at the end of the day, friends are supposed to help each other out. Needless to say, we arent friends anymore, not because of that, just generally bec ause she wasnt a very nice person and also only ever thought (and probaly still does), thinks of herself.
So yes, id say she is taking advantage of you, she sounds exactly like that old friend of mine.
she's not a friend, you're better off without her
Indeed. Thankfully, I've never been in this situation - if I ask a friend of mine to help me, I'll return the favour always.
LMAO!
If sum1 did that to me that wud PISS me off. ID go mental at her - but im not adivising you to do this i know it is not the right way to settle things....! JUst styop doing these things to her - act like she does and c how shed like it...
Snort. That was funny
BTW, very interesting essay question. I'd like to be asked something like that.