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fuck buddie on an off no longer..?
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ok so my fuck buddie an i are on an off. we usually have sex like once a month beause we work different hours (we work together but diferent shifts- we met thru work an work with the same people) anyway he doesnt often want sex that much like asking or nething...which i do (but i think i have a huge sex drive for a woman lol) but thats sweet cause the sex once a month is worth it if ya know what i mean . the situation is very complicated but we are not really mates an the other nite i was asking why we cant be fuck buddies an mates. well in the end i choose sex over friends cause sex is sex! lol then tonight he says he just wants to be mates cause hes into this other chick? now whats the deal with that ??? im thinking mayby he was jel because he knows i had sex with someone else a few nights ago.. or that mayby he has feelings for me? i dunno cause i would have thought i would be the one that would have more feelings... or hes acually into another chick? but conserding hes a womaniser is kinda suprising....i dunno advice would be great lol... thanks!!!
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Erm .. no? How about he has met someone else, as he says, and feels that he no longer requires a f*ck buddy?
its a shame, this is why these arrangements usually end badly.
its not for me tho, so dont get any ideas.
much appericated to have other point of views!
Yeah, you seem quite affected by all of this and if he was a true fuckbuddy in the 'unemotionally attached' sense, you wouldn't bother about it. I say you should just move on ...
A man wouldn't turn down free sex (if it's not a skank ho, or any other omnious reason). If he says he's into another girl this seems plausible, and if he's not comfortable anymore with being fuckbuddies with you, it should be ok for you too, especially if sex is accessible from other sources as well (as you said, you slept with someone different).
If he has the will to end it, then CERTAINLY not, because he's jealous on you.
thats the whole essence of fuckbuddies - its just a stopgap in between relationships. Hes found someone else so now its over. Thats the way it goes.
My love? Is that you, Rainbow? You thought you could escape me and my 2inches by changing your name, huh? Well now I've found you!!! hehehe