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Just saying the true tho...
Good question, clever lad that wooooooooah
Have you got a vibrator?
Cos sometimes if you can get there on your own and once it's easier to get there more often...
Well sometimes I can't finish either, but always manage to do my partner tho...
Do you not even get close?
http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/ I dunno if that's any good, it was just google, lol.
I'm sure you can do it if you find the best way for you...are there certain ways of doing stuff that are more pleasurable for you than others?
Ever try with a g-spot vibrator as well? As your bf fund your g-spot and try to stimulate it when he goes down on you?
lol thanks for the link, it was more funny than anything though..typical american stuff!
Nope never tried one of them, or even looked for the g-spot..
Is it worth it?!
Yes it is worth it big time!!
Some girls even get orgasm just with the g-spot...
Can make you come faster and even bring you up to multiple orgasm...
it is approx 2 inches inside your vagina on the front wall (sorry crap english but i hope you guess what i mean)
I'm alright with it, although irritated at the time, because at the end of the day, it's a pretty tiring thing. If we've both gotten there, then I'm happy just to lie there with him. We'll talk a bit but nothing deep. Sometimes we'll doze off. I'm sorta in the same state as him so it's all fine, usually.
For what it's worth, most advice is that you 'just haven't got the knack yet' but I can assure you that for me personally, when I was pre-orgasmic a stroke that would make me come now wouldn't have then. I'm not saying you should give up trying, just sometimes there seems to be this- oh keep at it and you'll get there attitude, which gets frustrating when it doesn't happen.
Slightly off topic, is there an age when we become orgasmic? In the same way that there is an age that we become fertile- puberty. That's what the difference between my days of no orgasm and now feels like, like I went through an orgasmic puberty...
:yes: Even if I haven't done any of the work, although it doesn't take me as long to recover as my boyfriend.
Nope. I usually fart, wipe myself off on the curtains and then ask her if her mum's currently seeing anyone ...
so count yourself lucky
:thumb:
Yeah sometimes i do, mostly after iv orgasmed but not so much if i haven't.
I do, I am being modest here :yes:
I dont know if youre like me but sometimes when im close to orgasm i can sometimes lose it and end up not coming. You kind of have to know how to go with the flow. I think if i was just lying there and didnt know my own body id find it harder.
If you get a vibrator (it doesnt have to be anything fancy like a rampant rabbit - any vibrator will do) Even if you just hold it on your clitoris or around the area if your clitoris is too sensitive, something should happen eventually- maybe not the first time, but I think its definitely worth a few goes.
Dont expect to orgasm, just go with the flow and see if anything happens.
Teehee, you vile, vile person.
Everyone's different; I usually like a little nap after sex, don't like cuddling afterward particularly and to answer turlough's question it's always a bonus when the woman gets to roll over and snore while he goes and slaves over a hot stove. The way it should be. :razz:
This is natural. Hormones kill off our mood, make us limp.
Male orgasm is exhausting. I had only 1 girl who could make me cuddle afterwards.
The rest was only: Roll off, go to sleep, "Shhh, girl. I'm tired."
Haha
/edit: Oh, and about making the girl get her pleasure as well.
I was making sure to have long foreplay, so she comes first, we can just continue, so I'll cum too.
If I did not get her off, before I cummed then there is no more chance. I simply.... C.A.N.N.O.T. After like 10 minutes I could give her the finger, but I am just so not in the mood, and not to get in there again for long.
On the other hand I orgasm pretty hard in sex. Uncomparable to wanking.
I heard some guys say they contonue after they cummed. What bullshit? I get limp a few seconds after I cummed, no chance in hell. If the man comes, it's the end of it. (if he is not familiar with the technique of Injakulation, I am not.)
He's a complicated man, no one understands him but his woman ...StrubbleS... can you dig it