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too young???
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Hi all,
I've met this lad and he is 17 and i'm 22. You reckon he is too young for me? he don't look young but a guess thats besides the point
Sauce x
I've met this lad and he is 17 and i'm 22. You reckon he is too young for me? he don't look young but a guess thats besides the point
Sauce x
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I know what your saying but i don't necessarily mean for a relationship
What context would he potentially be too young for? Sex, proper relationship..?
both
food for thought...
Bah Humbug
I don't think that age-gap is wrong at all, although it would worry me just because he isn't legally able to drink (obviously that doesn't stop him drinking underage). I kinda see 18 as the lowest I would go, just because they are classed as an adult then. Good luck on whatever you decide
18? that is the lowest i would normally go, ah well had a think just gonna leave it and be friends, thanks for the advice tho
cheers, sauce xx
So...
When I was 17 RB was 21, what does that have to do with anything?
It's not like he is 12 now...
When people dont like age gaps, you have to remember, thats just their personal preference, it doesnt mean its right or wrong.
If you have a connection with someone, age is irrelevant (apart from obvious legal relevencies sometimes)
In terms of a sexual relationship I really don't see the problem if you both like each other.
if u like him you should go for it. the rest will work itself out.
My sister's 25 and she's been going out with a 19 year old for a while now, and they seem to be good together.
But it sounds like you're just looking for an excuse to chuck him, so hey ho.
:thumb:
What else matters matters?
Hope things work out for the better
I remember when i was younger, my mum was at uni, she was about 33 and her boyfriend was 19 :eek:.
The fact that she was expecting us to say he was too young, and then further down said: