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Getting tested
BillieTheBot
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Me and my mate are going to go to the clinic to get tested. Its been a long time since i had my last test so I dont really remember what happened. So I kinda want to know what is going to happen to us.
Also my mate still has her hyman and doesnt want it broken. Would they take blood instead of the internal exam or would they use a really small clampy thing (the thing that looks like a beak)
My mate has never had sex only oral, but it wasnt with a condom and she swollowed. But she found out last ngiht that he's a player and has loads of girls on the go.
Thanks in advance:)
Also my mate still has her hyman and doesnt want it broken. Would they take blood instead of the internal exam or would they use a really small clampy thing (the thing that looks like a beak)
My mate has never had sex only oral, but it wasnt with a condom and she swollowed. But she found out last ngiht that he's a player and has loads of girls on the go.
Thanks in advance:)
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Any kind of physical activity could have caused it!!
Though this is all off toipc.
ETA after the following comment... how do you even know its there, its not exactly the most visible thing. Its not like a window cutian
She gave a blow job and swollowed. He could have a sti and given it to her, so she wants to get tested. If your not going to be helpful and answer the questions orginally stated please dont reply.
and fyi, not everybody bleeds when their hymen is broken. Thats a myth.
ages ago
nice. :yeees:
Anyway, you can catch STD's from giving head. Don't judge somebody because they're being safe.
Not always true!
So will she need an internal exam or not?
Hope you didn't slag me off too harshly!
the actual test (though a little confused as to why you want to know about it as you say you've already been??) was pain free and only had a slight bit of discomfort. you go behind a curtain and take your trousers/knickers off and wrap something around you. then you get up on the chair and (worst bit i think!) then put your legs up in some stirrups. then the nurse/doctor has a general examination of your lady bits..looking for any obvious symptoms of anything. then..well with me anyway, she put some lube stuff on me and inserted the metal thing. forgotten what they call it. this doesn't hurt, and it wasn't as uncomfortable as i thought i'd be! the lady was really steady and didn't just ram it up me or anything! there was another nurse stood there who was talking to me about uni and stuff and i just sat there with my hands over my eyes (dunno why!!). then they use this metal thing to open you up so they can take some swabs - i couldn't really feel this. then she took a swab from my wee hole (dunno the medical term!) and she said this might sting a bit but it didn't. then i went to another room and had a blood test (thought i'd get the full MOT while i was there!) and that was it, i went home.
you can state in which way you want to be contacted should they find that you have an infection or anything...i.e. by post/e-mail or text message.
hope that's helpful!
I didnt know they could contact you via email, that would be great for my friend as she cant let her family know cos they go mad at her for even talking to a boy so if they found out she needed testing they'd probably hit her or somthing.
well they could txt her
eta: why did they insert the metal do-da but not have your legs up in those thingies? and did you go to the doctors as opposed to a gum clinic 'cause i assume you just went to get your thrush checked out?
did you get tested at a GUM clinic or at the doctors?
should imagine it'd be the same for the GUM/sexual health clinic? afterall they do the same testing.
it's not! i'm a wimp but it was fine. i'm not going to lie about it; i've been honest about how it felt etc. just try not to think about it. and least you'll have piece of mind once you've been.
personally i'd rather go to the hospital to get it done. i won't be going there often unlike i do with the doctors and wouldn't fancy bumping into the nurse who was poking around in my lady bits with a bleedin' torch on her head while i've got my legs up in the air (slight exaggeration).
My hymen is definitely broken because I've been fingered several times, but it still hurts like f*ck every time does it.
just because you've been 'fingered' doesn't necessarily mean your hymen is broken. and there's obviously a reason why it 'hurts like f*ck'.
She wont remember every singles persons lady-bits she's ever seen! I know it's embarrassin but they dont care, or take mental notes...it's their job :yes: