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if she said yes you could do a happy jig
Just ask her, she wont think your stupid even if shes not attracted to you, she'll be flattered. When a bloke asks a girl out and she says no, sometimes the girl will start taking more notice of the bloke after and realise she should have said yes! Ive known loads of people who have done that, and then gone back to the bloke again with "so how about that drink?"
Your choice. That's all there is to it.
And if you haven't got the confidence, it won't happen.
Which isn't really a choice.
:yes: And this is something I learnt the hard way several months ago, after deciding not to tell a friend of mine that I fancied him. A few weeks later, I found out that he had a girlfriend. (Which tbh, doesn't bother me)
SHE IS NOT INTERESTED AT ALL.........NOT A BIT.......IN THE LEAST!!
There,I dont need to worry anymore about talking to her(cos I havent,nor will I)and am now trying to foget this ever happened.Simple and over.
Thanks again for trying to help.
Cheers
The Leaf
Your not going to get her with that attitude thats for sure
The other week she wouldnt hold my gaze at all but yesterday she kept staring at me when I got out to get changed!! :banghead: (nothing physically attractive about me though!!)
Im just gonna try talking tomorrow and see if she wants to see a movie sat.......is that a good idea?
Also,she COULD be pregnant, so how can I ask tactfully to find out as I dont really know if i`ll go out with her if she is....just friends would be ok.
Or is that selfish and shallow? :chin:
You daren't even talk to her but for some reason you think she could be pregnant and if she is your planning on not being with her and just being her mate. You need to talk to her before either of these are going to happen.
Just ask her out, if she says no its a lot easier to move on.