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Drop the incredulity, I just remember being that uncomfortable with myself and am trying to be sympathetic to someone's situation.
I don't make a habit of going through everyone's past posts to see if they deserve me being nice to them or not, I just try to take it as a matter of principle. If it bothers everyone that much, I'll start doing background checks. That ok?
it does help sometimes, although i generally go by what a person has said just in that particular post, and in this case he offended people so people had a go back.
thats what happens here.
we can be ruthless.
Although it's not just the people he offended who are getting on their high horses; if that was the case then fair play. It's when the gang mechanism kicks in and people who aren't involved start throwing insults that it all seems a bit playground.
When I was 14, I know I wasn't insecure because I wans't thinking about dating because I didn't want my dates to be with my mommy driving me there. And at the very least I was not running around bitching that only "ugly sluts" are the ones that find it attractive.
A child that is already clasifying girls and women by ugliness and "sluts" really deserved the replies that he got.
Trust me when you have long hair it gets annoying and in your face all the time but you dont really notice it until you have short hair. Just cut quite a bit off leaving about 1/2 inches and then mess it up a fair bit with hair gum. Then make a new thread posting how it looks so we can all see how right i am
Although at your age it can be quite hard