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Last winter I had mine on a timer switch so my bed was nice and toastie by the time I was ready for bed.
As to what i think about, it varies, but generally my fella unless I've got loads of shit on my mind.
Depends what's been happening to me as to what I think about. If the heartstrings are feeling a tug, I tend to think of nice young men/a nice young man whose caught my attention.
Otherwise I might relay my whole day in my head, or think about an essay, a presentation. If I've been out then I tend to think of everyone I saw and spoke to - leads to crazy dreams!
Jammies, Boxers, Socks and a t-shirt or a combination... i.e. jammie bottoms and t shirt or, boxers and socks...
and I think about a whole lot of things... things I am doing, things I have done etc et al.
when its freezing though i tend to wear thick pjs are a nightie
aand... generally before i go to bed i just use my imagination lol i imagine scenarios that would never happen in real life that i would LIKE to happen.. so it makes me happy!
or if not that then i think about stuff thats gone on during the day etc.. like lately ive been sleeping quite badly, which in part i think is due to the fact that im thinking about frustrating things/problems before i go to sleep
i had a leccy blanket, but since we got a new bed it doesn't fit anymore, and mr. kaff was never a great fan - he's always roasting in bed. i try to snuggle up for warmth, but the second my icy mitts touch him, he yelps and jumps across the room
Ilora x
I usually wear boxers, used to wear a tshirt but it gets too uncomfortable. Unless I'm just out the shower, then I wear shorts.
My mum will insist on buying me pyjamas and slippers every few months, even though i never wear them
I usually think about what I've done that day and what type of day I've had, embarassing, good or shit. Also of people and stuff. Just random things.
And i usually think about trying to get to sleep,which is a vicious circle cos i have great difficulty sleeping at times.
i hate it when that happens. i'll lie there trying to work out how exactly it is you get to sleep and how amazing it is that you can do that.. and then i think about it so much that i just cant sleep!
even in winter!
The thing i would think about befor i go to sleep would be what happened today or sometimes nothing! thats if im really tired
I really hate that, its like how do u get to sleep... do you just think you want to and it happens?
Or does your body know?
What do i think about? a variety of things....what i'd like to do with my life, what i've done with my day, what i could do the next day / coming week. If i'll get up in time for my 9am lecture. Girls. What i can do to get to sleep, if i'm drunk why is thr oom spinning and how can i stop myself from throwing up. Hahaha.
just because you're in denial james