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k this is a question for the girls ...im just wonderin how many of you would be ok with your boyfriend going 2 a party with his mates where there would be strippers??
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i'd happily let a girlfriend of mine to go and see male strippers...wouldnt bother me one bit
I don't think I'd mind my bird dancing either.
I would mind if she was one. Some things are for my eyes alone.
Unlikely.
He may want to, but strippers don't tend to touch clients.
so you're going out with him because....?
Because he wouldn't and she's paranoid.
That or she is 14 and loves a bit of drama in her life, like so many teeny girls do.
That'll keep me quiet. Haha.
However it would have very definitely have bothered me if my ex had gone to one, but i never did feel very secure in that relationship.
if you cant trust a guy theres no point in being with him
Would you be upset if watched porn?
but surely if you trust him..?
sure it wouldn't be nice to think of a boyfriend being teased like anything, but if you know they're only looking and wouldn't do anything.
but maybe its because im still young and probably a wee bit insecure still, i wouldn't be too bothered if it was a big group of lads out on a stag night or something, but if it was just a small group of them i probably would
porn though....it'd depend on the kind of porn
Original poster - you've got trust issues. What's possibly wrong with it. I wouldn't mind if Mrs. T went out to a strip club nor would she mind were I to go. It's not like he's going to a brothel. Just a bit of eye candy. It's like girls who get annoyed that their guys watch porn. It's just a bit of entertainment.
You can like someone enough to see them without trust being a pre-requisite for a relationship.
This is debatable from what I've heard.
Well, trusting someone doesn't mean they're not going to cheat, and not trusting someone doesn't mean they're going to cheat either.
If you like someone but don't trust them 100% then i don't see a problem...you might be surprised.
You live and learn whichever way it goes.
Also, unless your bf/gf properly loves you, there's always going to be other people who catch their interest.
Your boyfriend already fantasies about fucking other women every day, so whether he visits a strip club or watches porn is pretty irrelevent.
Naked women are everywhere. There's no avoiding it :thumb: .
my point was, its not the fact if your partner would cheat or not, if you're insecure and constantly worrying about it - then i don't see much point in the relationship unless you work on improving
I'd probably be a bit iffy if I had a bloke wanting to watch strippers, but the chances of him cheating on me with one would be something I would think is very very unlikely so I'd not refuse him to because I was feeling slightly uneasy about it.
And to the jelous girls, why dont you just join your men at the strip joints, you can keep an eye on them then
Sometimes me and my guy, his friends and their wives, we'll all take a trip to a strip joint. Quite a nice one too. They have a law in this county where if the estableshment sells liquer the women can't go full naked, so the place thats most popular is a place called diamonds. You are welcome to bring your own alcohol, and that premits the women to take it all off. Its a great time for the guys to have some fun, and the girls to have a few drinks and just gossip. Its fun and sexy, because as I said, once you go home, they want it bad and its great
That's assuming he wants the extras....
My boyfriend went along to a few strip clubs on a mate's stag night a few months back. Of the half dozen or however many of them were at the do, my bf was the only one who didn't have any private dances - even when one of the others offered to pay! His reasoning was not out of any consideration for me however, and he had a good laugh on the night, it was simply that, as he said, he couldn't imagine anything less sexy than having a girl who was clearly bored out of her skull gyrating over him.
My sister doesn't find it boring. Infact she loves it, and so do the rest of here work mates apparently.
No you can't.
Then surely that's partly your problem. Would he get insecure if you had a dildo bigger than he is?
He wouldn't be going out with you if he didn't fancy you.