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Dirty dream
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Ok now this may sound very petty, but I'm kinda embarassed...
As some of you may know, it's taken me a while to come to terms with my sexuality and finally on Tuesday I went to the LGBT and enjoyed it...
Anyway, it's not like me to dream naughty things (probably because dreams give your brai a rest from the stresses of day to day life), but I had a dream about a threesome between two female friends in my uni (both good lookin' blondes, one is adorable but te other just a mate) and now I kinda feel bad.
I mean should I be thinking of friends like that?
And furthermore, why have I never had a dirty dream about guys?
I know dreams are natural...But I haven't had one like this before...
Grrrr
As some of you may know, it's taken me a while to come to terms with my sexuality and finally on Tuesday I went to the LGBT and enjoyed it...
Anyway, it's not like me to dream naughty things (probably because dreams give your brai a rest from the stresses of day to day life), but I had a dream about a threesome between two female friends in my uni (both good lookin' blondes, one is adorable but te other just a mate) and now I kinda feel bad.
I mean should I be thinking of friends like that?
And furthermore, why have I never had a dirty dream about guys?
I know dreams are natural...But I haven't had one like this before...
Grrrr
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Dreams could be affected from a lot of things. If you just accepted you like women then obviously you've been thinking about it more, hence a dream about it.
Or something else, or nothing. Not everything has a special explanation.
So, you enjoyed (at least I presume you did) a dream (most people think that dreams are outside of your conscious control) and you're feeling guilty. Are/were you a Catholic?
I don't see why not., but then I consider sex to be a valid part of friendship.
Too early to tell. Wait until you've had another dozen about women and still none about men before reading anything into it and getting worried
Enough teasing. Give us the details
So you say you've come to terms with your sexuality. No offense, but um.. durr.. you're gonna have such dreams. If that's what you've been focusing on well then *shrug* you're going to sub-consciously think about it.
Why haven't you had dirty dreams about guys? Well... have you ever met a guy that you liked?
Should you be thinking of friends like that? I don't see why not. Most relationships were evolved from just a friendship between 2 people.
Don't be ashamed, just enjoy the dream for what it was. I presume you did enjoy it;)
It could well be your brain thinking about the day, and toying with ideas whilst you were asleep. I wouldn't give it any deep meaning.
My brother's gay, I have a womb and I know how much my mother would like grandchildren. I don't think she's been comfortable around some of my lesbian friends in the past...Maybe she suspects something.
No way!!!
Sometimes I have dreams about having sex with girls and I love it.
As for not having dirty dreams about boys, maybe it's because you know having sex with girls isn't the "norm" so maybe it's your brains way of getting out all those frustrations maybe I don't know.
With out coming across homophobic Id describe it as more of a nightmare
I think I was 16 or 17 at the time it didnt make me think I was gay, it just left me with an unplesent feeling it certainly wasnt a dream I enjoyed.
The dreams about sex with women seemed real, that one didnt
Sex with women is more appealing than men (I think) so maybe that's it...
I mean should I be thinking of friends like that?
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OMG some of the dreams ive had about friends who i dont even fancy, and ive even had some really rude dreams about a couple of family members partners That was a bit weird and probably innappropriate too, but hey, you cant help your dreams and i dont fancy them at all in real life.
Just dont tell them about the dream!
Probably the wise thing to do.
Theres bound to be people whove had filthy dreams about you too, and havent told you.
@ that.
the worst thing about that is that it's probably true. :nervous:
Why not...??
You can't control the unconscious, and it's meaning is probably not as overt as you might think anyway.
When I've had dirty dreams about female friends I usually end up telling them ... i think its funny as fuck ... most people understand that its just a dream and doesn't mean anything.
LMAO. That is EXACTLY what I was going to reply with. Hahahahaaa!
You so need to marry me ;(.
Guess I feel a bit more normal now.
Now you have to tell us who.
Or tell me anyway;)
I dont think we actually had sex though.