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lover in your teens
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Hello,
What is the biggets gae gap you have had with a lover in your teens?
And did it work out.
Just want to know what it was like?
What is the biggets gae gap you have had with a lover in your teens?
And did it work out.
Just want to know what it was like?
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I regret doing it with someone of such an age gap!
we never had sex, we weren't together that long (long distance), but we were madly in love and i know he still is, i do still love him aswell. We're still good friends and i'm seeing him in person for the first time in over a year on friday!
Not all relationships with an age gap face problems, however I can see why your friend is have problems, as with a 23 years age gap they appear to be at different stages in thier lives.
I'm 21 and in my 3rd year at uni and my bf is 27, likely he is not at the stage of wanting children at the moment, though one day he will. But at the moment he seems perfectly happy to wait, as he keeps saying that once I finish uni and get a job, then we will think about getting married etc...
The biggest age gap I have had was when I was 16 and stupidly lost it a guy who was aged 26 or 27.
But then when I was 17 I met a someone really special who I am still with and he is 2-3 years older.
I do know someone though however who was 14 and got together with a guy who was 19 turning 20 and they are still together.
She is currently 15 and he has just turned 21.
Or really, it would be now. 7 1/2 year difference. But thats only considering relationships.
it lasted a year and he did make me mature a lot (not in a bad way) but i definitly wasn't ready for any kind of commitment.
It was ok but he was a bit of a waster so things didn't work out. Didn't actually have anything to do with his age. Maybe cos he was pretty immature!